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Russ Walling
Social climber
Out on the sand.... man.....
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Mar 16, 2007 - 06:30pm PT
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Ask any of these people for the lowdown:
Anne Marie
Werner
Donny Reid
Nita
Sonagere
Chuck Au-man
and just so AC can say no way, look for some:
RockJox posts.....
gw posts.....
Nolens posts......
the path is there.
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Chiloe
Trad climber
Lee, NH
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Mar 16, 2007 - 06:31pm PT
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Well after 150 posts, here is what we have thus far
More Clouseau than Holmes.
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JuanDeFuca
Big Wall climber
Stoney Point
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Mar 16, 2007 - 06:42pm PT
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Get some help Russ, I mean AC.
JDF
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L
climber
Sesame Street
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Mar 16, 2007 - 06:50pm PT
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"Wrong, My Dear, I am absolutely NOT passive agressive"--LEB
Typical denial sequence. Try again, Lois. Just like you have absolutely NO memory problem. Absolutely NO marriage problem. Absolutely NO menopause problem. And NO jealousy problem. Right. You're just fine. A-OK. Glad to hear it.
Bye-bye Lois!
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wootles
climber
Gamma Quadrant
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Mar 16, 2007 - 08:13pm PT
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Chiloe - More Clouseau than Holmes.
Chiloe, you've way more class than me. I was thinking 'more Scobby Doo than Columbo'.
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Russ Walling
Social climber
Out on the sand.... man.....
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Mar 17, 2007 - 01:00am PT
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Lois: tell me your "safe color" and I might tell you more.
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Russ Walling
Social climber
Out on the sand.... man.....
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Mar 17, 2007 - 01:21am PT
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BDSM is a compound word, which stands for Bondage and Discipline (B&D), Dominance and Submission (D&S), Sadism and Masochism(S&M).It includes such activities as restraining, spanking, whipping, role-playing, experimenting with body sensations, using various senses deprivation (like blindfolders) and many others. Bondage toys adds great sensual thrill to sexual play. But for many people the first question that comes to their mind is how to introduce bondage toy to your partner. You may feel awkward and uncomfortable about the idea to introduce things, a mainstream society considers as a perversion. These general rules may be useful for those who want to share desires with their partner:
Introducing bondage toys
You may start talking about introducing bondage, by uttering your wishes in a "soft" manner, trying not to push the topic roughly. You may begin with emphasizing your preferences, like "I would love to ..", " It feels great if you would..."
You may share your opinions on books, programs or films on related topics and suggest things which turned you on.
Talk out every misunderstanding; this will make your sexual relationships stronger and more intimate.
Safe words
Before anyone gets involved in bondage play BDSM community set "Safe, Sane and Consensual"(SSC) motto, which means that bondage activities should wear no risk to health, should take place in sane and sound cast of mind and all parties fully agree on activities they are going to proceed. This should refer to you if you decided to try bondage. First of all you should trust the person to let him tie you up or flog yourself. Use "safe words" to mark the limits of the play. These can be common color word codes (red for "stop" and yellow for "slow down").
Restraining safety
If you decided to tie your submissive so that he can feel the high of being pleased in immovable state, you should be sure restraints are safe for your partner's health. The hardness of the bondage restraint will influence the way you are going to tie your partner.
You may choose a wide range of leather cuffs, metal handcuffs, ropes and scarves.
Use "finger test" for restraining: you should be able to slip a finger or two between the cuff and the wrist or ankle.
Neck and joints (elbows, knees and etc) should be avoided for restraints and should never be too tight if used.
The harder is the material of restraint, the less tightness it should execute.
You should make use of regular checking your passive's state. Any doubtful signs, such as coldness or whitening of the limbs are a cause to stop the play.
Apply tension on a wide body area.
Be sure you have emergency tools for cutting and unfastening.
Flagellation Safety
Flagellation or flogging is one of the strongest and tempting activities, which include hitting with floggers, whips, paddles, crops and other devices meant for bondage discipline. Flogging doesn't need to be painful by all means. Some may use only symbolic flagellation with soft materials floggers, which give more like a massaging stimulation, than pain sensation. The intensity of the whipping depends on your or your partner's individual preferences and resistance. And you should always take precautions against severe harm.
Using protection on most sensitive areas is a good choice to prevent your submissive from careless hit. You can put on some garments, like leather jackets, collars and your own clothing, which can serve you for safety.
Flogging is usually better performed on particular parts of the body, which are more fleshy and fat. These include such parts as butt and thighs, upper back and upper chest for men. Buttocks are the most suitable part and you may apply stronger hits on this area.
Avoid following parts: chest, abdomen, joints, neck, lower abdomen and the spine area.
Watch out carefully for such signs as reddening of the skin, bruisers and cuts, and stop when needed.
General rule
Keep in mind SSC slogan. Be sure, competent and resolute about bondage play.
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nita
climber
chico ca
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Mar 17, 2007 - 01:39am PT
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Leb, If you click on A.crowley-you get Matthew Moore's email.
Guess What? That's who A Crowley is....How about that for detective work!
I happen to be a very honest person...read what I have posted
about him........It's All True!
P.s. L is a Goddess, funny, and Smart. ;-)
Russ, Many moons ago, I used to be into Bandage- Bondage.
You and your partner- put strong tape -all over- each others body... then take turns ripping it off.
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Russ Walling
Social climber
Out on the sand.... man.....
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Mar 17, 2007 - 02:01am PT
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LEB asks why?:
Same reason AC posts here.... abuse is attention. Getting your nuts kicked in figuratively or in reality gives them (the AC's among us) something they missed as children... ample breast feeding. Snatch them from the teat too soon and not only do they have a mouth that never really closes when they chew food as adults, but they love to get thier nuts kicked. Not my particular bent, but to each his own. That and the whole self loathing thing....
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nita
climber
chico ca
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Mar 17, 2007 - 02:02am PT
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Leb, I have know Matthew since 1975.. It's him= A. Crowley and
only A. Crowley. WildBill is a lying about him being other people.
p.s. L= Still a goddess, maybe -she just does not like you?
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WBraun
climber
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Mar 17, 2007 - 02:15am PT
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Lois said: "For me, anyway, goddesses must have beauty outside and also be loving, compassionate and kindly."
Then you have not seen her terrible form as she comes in time of war, famine, sickness and death. Still she is Goddesses. She can appear in any form and maintain her superiority.
The Goddesses is not bound to anyones interpretation. She's absolutely free from that.
Beware when the fog lifts.
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nita
climber
chico ca
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Mar 17, 2007 - 02:34am PT
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Leb, I only said -Maybe-... I don't know for sure.
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nature
climber
Flagstaff, AZ
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Mar 17, 2007 - 02:38am PT
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looks like the super-dupers are still getting a lot of hits. I'd have thunk the stringer woulda been full but I guess I was wrong.
The boys from Primus have such a great hobby.
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JuanDeFuca
Big Wall climber
Stoney Point
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Mar 17, 2007 - 02:40am PT
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nita
climber
chico ca
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Mar 17, 2007 - 02:40am PT
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Nature, With me it's strictly * catch and release*
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Jaybro
Social climber
The West
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Mar 17, 2007 - 02:46am PT
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Er, sis, remember, Shiva is a godess.
And the fish-ey stuff, some people get, what others of us get, in a different way.
"Pays the prettiest women in town to kick him when he's down." - Timbuk 3.
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WBraun
climber
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Mar 17, 2007 - 02:50am PT
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Shiva is not Goddess
He is a demigod in charge of living entities in the mode of ignorance.
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Jaybro
Social climber
The West
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Mar 17, 2007 - 03:36am PT
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Holy dislexia, batman, I was thinking... Kali?
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Jaybro
Social climber
The West
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Mar 17, 2007 - 03:57am PT
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yup, to each, their own. and if I say I don't want to share, I mean it.
were you looking at x-rays during the 'gerbil' era?
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nature
climber
Flagstaff, AZ
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Mar 17, 2007 - 11:35am PT
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nita - the catch-and-release certainly makes it bit more entertaining. good thing we're using spoons - we'd be outta worms by now otherwise.
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