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maculated
Trad climber
San Luis Obispo, CA
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Pud, my thoughts exactly.
If you only expect the worst, that's what you'll get. All this vitriolic spewing instead of analyzing the situation makes me sick.
We've all been in unrequited love/like situations. If you don't like it, you must change it. Sometimes you must change you.
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healyje
Trad climber
Portland, Oregon
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Janet,
In climbing parlance that would be like an R/X-rated (dangerous) climb where on getting to the crux you find you don't like the way it all looks or feels and so back down off it. You typically never feel great about having done so and keep getting a nagging feeling you probably could have sent it if you'd stuck with it just a little longer. But in the end when you get that feeling it's almost always better that you've ended up hanging out by the fire with a beer instead...
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maculated
Trad climber
San Luis Obispo, CA
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Been there, Janet. Oh yes. I think there's quite a few R grade guys there at the least.
That said, I think a lot of them don't know they are doing that. I think most people do what they think is right or okay but in fact it is not.
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dirtineye
Trad climber
the south
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Topic Author's Reply - Mar 2, 2006 - 09:14pm PT
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Janet,
Exactly.
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dirtineye
Trad climber
the south
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Topic Author's Reply - Mar 4, 2006 - 10:33am PT
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Sad that the aruba the aruba thing had to happen.
It does tie in with this thread very well though.
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Melissa
Gym climber
berkeley, ca
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"Even if it's as simple as bad breath - a turn-off is a turn-off, isn't it?"
Right on!
"There ain't nothin' to understand. Either you dig it, or you don't."
--Eddie Harris
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dirtineye
Trad climber
the south
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Topic Author's Reply - Mar 6, 2006 - 10:33am PT
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Melissa quoted snippiegrrrl and agreed:
""Even if it's as simple as bad breath - a turn-off is a turn-off, isn't it?"
Right on! "
Funny this came up. My sister was dating theis really nice guy. He as a friend of mine. She wa a little unhappy wiht the ralationship at the time. She complained that he had sticky lips. I said why don't you just tell him to brush his teeth more often? She did just that. They have 3 kids and have been married almost 20 years.
Touche, girls.
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Klimatron
climber
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Whats the point of this f*#kin thread. Chicks don't have enough brains to know whats best for them? Dude sounds a little messed up man.
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dirtineye
Trad climber
the south
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Topic Author's Reply - Mar 6, 2006 - 02:12pm PT
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Klimatron, the point is that this thread is way over your head.
Don't fret over it.
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