May-December Couples, what do you think? (OTish)

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ncrockclimber

climber
The Desert Oven
Oct 14, 2013 - 11:45pm PT
Wow. Cragman is in rare form tonight. The love of jesus just shines through in every post.
Klimmer

Mountain climber
Topic Author's Reply - Oct 14, 2013 - 11:48pm PT
Yes,I know many on ST can't handle deep and controversial topics. It's just to scary to consider.

BOOOOOOOO!


But some people can. I appreciate them. And they don't get rude or call others names. They can just talk the topic without ad hominem attacks. ST needs more climbers like that.
ncrockclimber

climber
The Desert Oven
Oct 14, 2013 - 11:54pm PT
So, how did Jesus feel about pious as#@&%es?

Seriously, Cragman, you are acting like a dick to Klimmer.
Klimmer

Mountain climber
Topic Author's Reply - Oct 14, 2013 - 11:59pm PT
Tell me where the theology is wrong Cragman.

The Jews are Jewish. The Good Book is Jewish. Jesus, Yeshua HaMashiach is Jewish. The disciples are Jewish. The first "churches" were Messianic Synagogues, filled with Torah observant Messianic Jews. Yeshua didn't come to start a new religion, but Judaism with HaMashiach (the Messiah).

Do you know the truth of Genesis 6? Or do you bury your head in the sand?


If you knew the Good Book, you would know its filled with May-December love stories and marriages.
Klimmer

Mountain climber
Topic Author's Reply - Oct 15, 2013 - 12:05am PT
If you knew the Good Book, you would know its filled with May-December love stories and marriages.
Wade Icey

Trad climber
www.alohashirtrescue.com
Oct 15, 2013 - 12:07am PT
Jesus didn't suffer fools either....he let them know when they were being foolish.

Lo, he said unto them 'if ye don't like it, pound sand.'


this aint 'rare form,' it's the normal dick headed hypocrisy and rudeness that Jesus wouldn't suffer.
Halleluya
ncrockclimber

climber
The Desert Oven
Oct 15, 2013 - 12:07am PT
Likewise. It is a public forum and I am just pointing out that you are being rude and a hypocrite. I also think it is really interesting how you hide behind jesus when you're a dick.
Daphne

Trad climber
Northern California
Oct 15, 2013 - 12:18am PT
Um, about the may/dec in the Bible: It isn't that long since women were traded away in marriage. Women were seen as chattel. They still are, in some places in the world. Lovely that some of those arranged marriages resulted in true love, but I am pretty sure most of them were just solid agreements for raising children and earning a living.

edit: and I think all those bible stories start with the old guy desiring the young woman first

SalNichols

Big Wall climber
Richmond, CA
Oct 15, 2013 - 12:24am PT
Being Portuguese, if she were my daughter and I found out that you were talking about her on the Interweb, I'd personally track your worthless ass down and relieve you of your oh so tiny testicles.
I have no problem with age disparate relationships. I have a hell of a problem with wankers. I don't even know who you are, but you're an unlikeable fake. Seriously, who goes to an Internet forum for relationship advice unless they're just trying to stroke themselves. And stuff your biblical bullsh#t. There are people who use the bible to justify all kinds of bulls*t crimes.
Klimmer

Mountain climber
Topic Author's Reply - Oct 15, 2013 - 01:20am PT
Sal,

Sorry you're losing it. I've said only good things and praise about her. And I've never mentioned her name nor will I. Have you ever read a true love story? Gee, they're public for all to see and read.



Age Gap in Marriage (A Biblical perspective)

http://www.nccg.org/629Art-AgeGap.html

"In biblical times, the convention was that men marry at around 30 and women when they reached puberty. Today, because of the secular culture, things are very different. On balance, men and women will tend to seek mates who are of around the same age, the convention usually being that the men are a little older than the women. However, there will always be exceptions that are not only honourable but blessed of heaven, as we see in the examples of Ruth and Boaz who were the ancestors of Joseph and Mary, and of a similar age difference, and who brought forth the Saviour of the World. And what Elohim (God) has brought together, let not man tear asunder in either attitude or in deed."
SalNichols

Big Wall climber
Richmond, CA
Oct 15, 2013 - 01:31am PT
You're a bloody nutcase. Personally, I hope she cleans out your wallet and dumps your dumb ass.
Wade Icey

Trad climber
www.alohashirtrescue.com
Oct 15, 2013 - 01:40am PT
I hope she cleans out your wallet and dumps your dumb ass.

is that the 'Portuguese," way, that what you'd teach your daughter Sal?
Klimmer

Mountain climber
Topic Author's Reply - Oct 15, 2013 - 01:50am PT
http://www.nccg.org/629Art-AgeGap.html

Age Gap in Marriage

"Age-gap marriages have both advantages and disadvantages. The chief disadvantage is, of course, that the older husband will die long before the younger one, leaving her a widow. And in the less common example of an older wife, there is less chance of having children. By far the more common of the two is the older husband and younger wife coupling. With what advantages do the respective parties view such an arrangement (aside from the carnal ones of more sex or more money, which common sense alone ought to warn the believer to avoid)? According to research, older men prefer younger women not necessarily because they are more sexually attractive but because they are more mouldable, and younger women preferred older men because they were more intellectually stimulating, more emotionally sympathetic and spiritually maturer.

According to a recent article by Kate Devlin on the physical and health aspects of marriage in the British newspaper, The Telegraph (May 19-25 2010, #982, p.8) entitled, The Cougar Effect: Marry Toy Boy, Die Young, citing a Danish sociologist, Sven Drefahl of the Max Planck Institute for Demographic Research in Rostock, Germany, who used statistics on two million Danish couples, an older woman settling down with a younger man has a 20% reduced life expectancy whereas men who marry younger women tend to live much longer."
Deekaid

climber
Oct 15, 2013 - 01:50am PT
klimmer sounds dreamy.
John M

climber
Oct 15, 2013 - 01:55am PT
. You aren't seeking God's will. You are asking advice on an internet forum to entertain yourself.
paul roehl

Boulder climber
california
Oct 15, 2013 - 02:28am PT
If you'll eventually fit into the rule of one half plus seven years (at 65) then why not go ahead. And don't listen to the haters on this thread. Though I don't usually agree with you, I respect your honesty and the decency of your responses unlike so many at the super t. Go for it.
Reilly

Mountain climber
The Other Monrovia- CA
Oct 15, 2013 - 02:32am PT
The Wife got on SuperTopo and asked me if there was anything good. I said, "No, it's been
really lame lately." Then she found this thread and the chuckles started.
"This is like reading one of those British tabloids."
SalNichols

Big Wall climber
Richmond, CA
Oct 15, 2013 - 03:11am PT
@wade, if the idea of some old creepy dude buying a Brazilian bride doesn't set off your red flags, then ignore the guy with the gun standing behind you at the ATM. The worst part of it is his coming to a forum to stroke himself, apparently with Gods blessing.
Klimmer

Mountain climber
Topic Author's Reply - Oct 15, 2013 - 09:21am PT
Oct 14, 2013 - 11:32pm PT
The Wife got on SuperTopo and asked me if there was anything good. I said, "No, it's been
really lame lately." Then she found this thread and the chuckles started.
"This is like reading one of those British tabloids."



Ive had the same reaction and I started the thread. Lol.

It's pretty interesting to hear everyone's opinion on this May-Dec matter. It's seems like there aren't any fence sitters. You're either on one side of the fence or the other.

We have the camp of ... Go For It! Enjoy love. Blessings. (I defer to this group. And knowing the circumstances I think HaShem is pulling strings in this direction.)

As a well known Jew said, "Coincidences are G-d's way of staying anonymous." -- Einstein


And then the other camp ... You are a sick perverted creeper, and she should take all your money after she leaves your butt. Then check into a mental institute.

ROTFL
Deekaid

climber
Oct 15, 2013 - 10:20am PT
Please explain the "ish" part of OTish because I don't see it. My first post has proved out.
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