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Jan
Mountain climber
Colorado & Nepal
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Mar 18, 2016 - 12:23pm PT
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I agree with PSP, that to be selfless is to be moral. Morality broadly defined, is making decisions that put others before yourself or at least equal to yourself as in the Golden Rule, which was promulgated by Confucius by the way, 500 years before Christ.
Any place short of enlightenment however, one is still selfish one to one degree or another. The samurai were not enlightened. The Zen Buddhist monks who supported themselves through the sponsorship of the samurai and their masters, were also compromised. That's why the new young thinkers of the Meiji reformation in the mid 1800's abandoned Buddhism and chose Shinto as the state religion instead. The old attitudes of the feudal society prevailed however, in spite of this, right up through WWII. During that war, the only Japanese opposition came from Japanese Christians and Buddhists of the Nichiren sect only, who spent the war years in prison.
Along these lines, it was interesting to watch The Last Samurai in a Japanese audience dubbed with Japanese subtitles, and to read the reviews afterward. The diagnosis generally was that the samurai of that era could be admired somewhat for staying true to their original principles, but that they were obstructionists to the modernization of Japan, and on a quixotic crusade to preserve their privileged position at the expense of the average Japanese. Tom Cruise's role was thought to be a hopelessly naive Hollywood anti modern romanticism.
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Mark Force
Trad climber
Ashland, Oregon
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Mar 18, 2016 - 01:05pm PT
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I would argue that we do not need to be selfless to be moral. The Canadian endocrinologist, Hans Selye, MD, who wrote The Stress of Life - a wonderful treatise on the physiology of stress on living organisms - coined the term altruistic egoism for acting for the good of others with the knowledge that it is ultimately good for you to do so.
"Pay it forward."
"What goes around comes around."
You don't have to be egoless to be moral. It does help to keep our egos from being over-inflated, though!
Practicing compassion is an example of this.
'If you want others to be happy, practice compassion; if you want to be happy, practice compassion."
~ Dalai Lama
“It would be true to say that the cultivation of loving kindness and compassion is all of our practice.” ~ ~ Buddha
"That which is hateful to you, do not do to your fellow. That is the whole Torah. The rest is the explanation; go and learn."
~ Rabbi Hillel the Elder, 1st century AD
“These things I command you, that you love one another.”
~ John 15:17
Brain imaging studies using functional magnetic resonance imaging (fMRI) have shown that people who regularly practice compassion-focused meditation become more aware and responsive to the emotions of others around them and display higher activity in areas of the brain associated with the experience of empathy when compared to control subjects who do not practice compassion-focused meditation.
Lutz A, Brefczynski-Lewis J, Johnstone T and Davidson RJ (2008) Regulation of the neural circuitry of emotion by compassion meditation: effects of meditative expertise. PLoS One 3, e1897.
Research shows that compassion-focused meditation improves immune function, increases the daily experience of positive emotions and social connection, promotes association with the present (mindfulness), increases sense of purpose and satisfaction with life, decreases depression and rate of illness, and reduces prejudice, chronic pain, and harmful physiological responses relative to stress.
Pace TW, Negi LT, Adame DD, Cole SP, Sivilli TI, Brown TD, Issa MJ and Raison CL (2009) Effect of compassion meditation on neuroendocrine, innate immune and behavioral responses to psychosocial stress. Psychoneuroendocrinology 34, 87-98.
Fredrickson BL, Cohn MA, Coffey KA, Pek J and Finkel SM (2008) Open hearts build lives: positive emotions, induced through loving-kindness meditation, build consequential personal resources. J Pers Soc Psychol 95, 1045-1062.
Hutcherson CA, Seppala EM and Gross JJ (2008) Loving-kindness meditation increases social connectedness. Emotion 8, 720-724.
Carson JW, Keefe FJ, Lynch TR, Carson KM, Goli V, Fras AM and Thorp SR (2005) Loving- kindness meditation for chronic low back pain: results from a pilot trial. J Holist Nurs 23, 287-304
“Judge not, and you shall not be judged. Condemn not, and you shall not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven.”
~ Luke 6:37-38
Practicing forgiveness has been shown to decrease depression and increase feelings of self-mastery, empathy, life satisfaction, and well-being with stability of these changes over time.
Levenson MR, Aldwin CM and Yancura L (2006) Positive emotional change: mediating effects of forgiveness and spirituality. Explore (NY) 2, 498-508.
People who assess high for the trait forgiveness have lower blood pressure and heart rate, list fewer physical symptoms, sleep better, and have more energy, use less alcohol, and take fewer medications when compared to people who assess low for the trait forgiveness.
Lawler-Row KA, Karremans JC, Scott C, Edlis-Matityahou M and Edwards L (2008) Forgiveness, physiological reactivity and health: the role of anger. Int J Psychophysiol 68, 51-58.
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“If I then, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also ought to wash one another’s feet. For I have given you an example, that you should do as I have done to you.”
~ John 13:13-14
Functional magnetic resonance imaging shows that the same areas of the brain are stimulated when subjects make donations as when they experience monetary rewards. Also, the prefrontal cortex of the brain (higher cognitive areas of the brain) show increased activity when subjects make altruistic choices. Findings of these studies indicate that altruistic behaviors are psychologically rewarding.
Moll J, Krueger F, Zahn R, Pardini M, de Oliveira-Souza R and Grafman J (2006) Human fronto- mesolimbic networks guide decisions about charitable donation. Proc Natl Acad Sci U S A 103, 15623-15628.
Fehr E and Rockenbach B (2004) Human altruism: economic, neural, and evolutionary perspectives. Curr Opin Neurobiol 14, 784-790.
Harbaugh WT, Mayr U and Burghart DR (2007) Neural responses to taxation and voluntary giving reveal motives for charitable donations. Science 316, 1622-1625.
Research indicates that individuals providing anonymous charity are motivated by vicariously experiencing the receiver’s joy from improvement of their circumstances and the actual increase in their welfare.
Batson CD, Batson JG, Slingsby JK, Harrell KL, Peekna HM and Todd RM (1991) Empathic joy and the empathy-altruism hypothesis. J Pers Soc Psychol 61, 413-426.
Hans Selye, MD, the Canadian endocrinologist who developed the current model of stress and how it affects living systems promoted altruism for it’s direct effect on decreasing stress and improving health. He proposed that “egoistic altruism” is natural law of the biological advantage of cooperation and collaboration between cells, individuals, groups, communities, and societies.
The Stress of Life Hans Selye, MD (1978) McGraw-Hill
Stress Without Distress Hans Selye, MD (1975) Signet
Charitable acts have been shown to decrease stress, improve quality of life, and increase lifespan for the giver, while a person who receives, but does not practice charity, doesn’t experience the same benefit.
Krause N (2006) Church-based social support and mortality. J Gerontol B Psychol Sci Soc Sci 61, S140-S146.
“Therefore, I tell you, her many sins have been forgiven--for she loved much.”
~ Luke 7:47
Devotion can be defined as feelings of ardent love, commitment to a purpose; a strong positive emotion of regard and affection. Synonyms are loyalty, faithfulness, fidelity, constancy, commitment, adherence, allegiance, dedication; fondness, love, admiration, affection, and care.
These strong positive emotions have a profoundly positive effect on our health. Research indicates that devotion and related positive heart-focused emotions has effects on the autonomic nervous system that improve internal regulation of organic systems and functions.
Lane, R. D., McRae, K., Reiman, E. M., Chen, K., Ahern, G. L., & Thayer, J. F. (2009). Neural correlates of heart rate variability during emotion. Neuroimage, 44(1), 213-22. doi:10.1016/ j.neuroimage.2008.07.056
McCraty, R., Atkinson, M., Tiller, W. A., Rein, G., & Watkins, A. D. (1995). The effects of emotions on short-term power spectrum analysis of heart rate variability . The American Journal of Cardiology, 76(14), 1089-93.
Miu, A. C., Heilman, R. M., & Miclea, M. (2009). Reduced heart rate variability and vagal tone in anxiety: Trait versus state, and the effects of autogenic training. Autonomic Neuroscience : Basic & Clinical, 145(1-2), 99-103. doi:10.1016/j.autneu.2008.11.010
Devotion and other heart- focused emotions lower the stress hormone, cortisol, improve anabolic functions and decrease catabolic breakdown of body tissues, improve insulin sensitivity and blood lipid profiles, and restore levels of DHEA, a precursor the anabolic hormones testosterone, progesterone, and estrogen.
McCraty, R., Barrios-Choplin, B., Rozman, D., Atkinson, M., & Watkins, A. D. (1998). The impact of a new emotional self-management program on stress, emotions, heart rate variability, DHEA and cortisol. Integrative Physiological and Behavioral Science : The Official Journal of the Pavlovian Society, 33(2), 151-70.
These positive emotions even relieves pain and positively influence both longevity and physical capacities with age.
Mauskop, A. (2005). Vagus nerve stimulation relieves chronic refractory migraine and cluster headaches. Cephalalgia : An International Journal of Headache, 25(2), 82-6. doi:10.1111/j. 1468-2982.2005.00611.x
Danner, D. D., Snowdon, D. A., & Friesen, W. V. (2001). Positive emotions in early life and longevity: Findings from the nun study. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 80(5), 804-13.
Ostir, G. V., Markides, K. S., Black, S. A., & Goodwin, J. S. (2000). Emotional well-being predicts subsequent functional independence and survival. Journal of the American Geriatrics Society, 48(5), 473-8.
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jgill
Boulder climber
The high prairie of southern Colorado
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Mar 18, 2016 - 01:19pm PT
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. . . to be selfless is to be moral
I can envision a member of the Islamic State being completely selfless and volunteering to become a suicide bomber and blowing up a hundred innocents. But if you mean selflessness to be a form of altruism I would agree. But it's not, necessarily.
The notions of bad or good, right or wrong, appropriate or inappropriate are all questionable, relative, contextual, biased, and selective. They are all socially constructed, as well
Would you then consider no culture to be less moralistic than another? All are somehow equivalent?
Sam Harris: "Islam . . . the wellspring of bad ideas."
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Jan
Mountain climber
Colorado & Nepal
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Mar 18, 2016 - 02:07pm PT
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Yes, good point jgill about the suicide bombers. What comes to mind in that case is the Buddhist teaching that much evil in the world is created out of ignorance, which gets us back to discursive thinking as part of morality. Of course one could also argue that putting one's own religious or political idealogy above others, is an act of egoism which wouldn't happen if one were selfless.
I like the yogi's saying that "yogis do not reject any description because they are incomplete or inaccurate; rather, they accept every description because they are incomplete and inaccurate". It sounds a little bit like social science relativism. We don't make judgements for others, only ourselves.
Of course then there's the problem of how to pass on values to the next generation if we can't or don't make judgements. I liked my parent's approach "Here are the general guidelines, but you have to figure out the gray area details for yourself".
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Mark Force
Trad climber
Ashland, Oregon
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Mar 18, 2016 - 03:53pm PT
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...what people see and what is causal are the ways that these abilities and understandings translate into how we live in the world.
Indeed, where the rubber meets the road....
...all the rest is just revving the engine before putting it in gear and letting out the clutch!
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BLUEBLOCR
Social climber
joshua tree
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Mar 18, 2016 - 07:27pm PT
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I would argue that we do not need to be selfless to be moral. The Canadian endocrinologist, Hans Selye, MD, who wrote The Stress of Life - a wonderful treatise on the physiology of stress on living organisms - coined the term altruistic egoism for acting for the good of others with the knowledge that it is ultimately good for you to do so.
seems like the act of "Being Moral" is selfless.i still don't like to curse because my grandmother disliked it soo. But, for her to lay down the rule for us not to cuss, was a bit selfish on her part.Sure,her concern and compassion was primarily towards our good and positive growth. But it was from her conscious what she deemed "good" which entailed ruling over our behavior.
Now either a Moral is a living entity we altruistically bow down to, or else it's a rule prescribed by our parents' "I".
Also, doing good for other's while hedging it's best for oneself, is atleast selfish.. isn't it?
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Jan
Mountain climber
Colorado & Nepal
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Mar 18, 2016 - 07:42pm PT
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Good points blueblocr.
And come on Jim, dare to elaborate on this one.
"behaving morally is different from behaving ethically"
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BLUEBLOCR
Social climber
joshua tree
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Mar 18, 2016 - 07:57pm PT
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Good post Jan>
Of course then there's the problem of how to pass on values to the next generation if we can't or don't make judgements.
we are either doomed ,or we're doomed if we don't pass on judgements.
"We're" not jus an organism rooted on laws, "we're" a society based on rules.
Thus the "Versus" between "Religion" and Science..
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BLUEBLOCR
Social climber
joshua tree
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Mar 18, 2016 - 08:40pm PT
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I can envision a member of the Islamic State being completely selfless and volunteering to become a suicide bomber and blowing up a hundred innocents. But if you mean selflessness to be a form of altruism I would agree. But it's not, necessarily.
maybe yours is a romantic vision? i see the bombers as BEING selfish. i mean with a reward of 72 virgins and all..or maybe they are just being told to kill people,or "our people will be killed"? That's why i can't be angry at the messenger, just the message.
"Alturism" from wiki;
Altruism or selflessness is the principle or practice of concern for the welfare of others. It is a traditional virtue in many cultures and a core aspect of various religious traditions and secular worldviews, though the concept of "others" toward whom concern should be directed can vary among cultures and religions. Altruism or selflessness is the opposite of selfishness. The word was coined by the French philosopher Auguste Comte in French, as altruisme, for an antonym of egoism.[1][2] He derived it from the Italian altrui, which in turn was derived from Latin alteri, meaning "other people" or "somebody else".[3]
Altruism in biological organisms can be defined as an individual performing an action which is at a cost to themselves (e.g., pleasure and quality of life, time, probability of survival or reproduction), but benefits, either directly or indirectly, another third-party individual, without the expectation of reciprocity or compensation for that action. Steinberg suggests a definition for altruism in the clinical setting, that is "intentional and voluntary actions that aim to enhance the welfare of another person in the absence of any quid pro quo external rewards".[4]
Altruism can be distinguished from feelings of loyalty, in that whilst the latter is predicated upon social relationships, altruism does not consider relationships. Much debate exists as to whether "true" altruism is possible in human psychology. The theory of psychological egoism suggests that no act of sharing, helping or sacrificing can be described as truly altruistic, as the actor may receive an intrinsic reward in the form of personal gratification. The validity of this argument depends on whether intrinsic rewards qualify as "benefits". The actor also may not be expecting a reward.
The term altruism may also refer to an ethical doctrine that claims that individuals are morally obliged to benefit others. Used in this sense, it is usually contrasted with egoism, which is defined as acting to the benefit of one's self.
What i find prevalent, here on the great wiki, the contrast between the first sentence and the last..?
Morally obliged, compared to "practice of concern"??
Is it any wonder we're confused!?
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BLUEBLOCR
Social climber
joshua tree
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Mar 18, 2016 - 08:59pm PT
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We just shouldn't be emotional about it.
WHY NOT??? Why else/ or how else do we do anything?Why else would JGill start bouldering? to benefit his gymnastics? Why do you promote your daughters climbing ability's? Yeah, to rouse emotion, and envy from those of us that have daughters, right? We do what we do balancing what feels right, right?
i think we should strive to be as emotional as possible, within a logical circumference of course..
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BLUEBLOCR
Social climber
joshua tree
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Mar 18, 2016 - 09:05pm PT
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If I do the right thing only because my logic tells me to do it, am I immoral?
Your "right thing"? Your logic? Your moral?
Ask YOUR conscious!
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Mark Force
Trad climber
Ashland, Oregon
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Mar 18, 2016 - 09:25pm PT
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Jim, It seems like ethics and morals are pretty close. Could you clarify these two as you see it?
"behaving morally is different from behaving ethically"
Jan, what are your thoughts about that distinction?
This is what I get from grammarist.com:
"Morals are the principles on which one’s judgments of right and wrong are based. Ethics are principles of right conduct. So the two nouns are closely related and are often interchangeable. The main difference is that morals are more abstract, subjective, and often personal or religion-based, while ethics are more practical, conceived as shared principles promoting fairness in social and business interactions."
Generally, I am typically drawn to principles and actions. Principles seem to have more application and seem to be more useful as a guide for behavior in a given situation.
Here's another take on the action part of ethics.
"A person who knows the difference between right and wrong and chooses right is moral. A person whose morality is reflected in his willingness to do the right thing – even if it is hard or dangerous – is ethical. Ethics are moral values in action"
~ Carter McNamara, Authenticity Consulting
What about principles?
Def: a (1) : a comprehensive and fundamental law, doctrine, or assumption b (1) : a rule or code of conduct (2) : habitual devotion to right principles c : the laws or facts of nature underlying the working of an artificial device. 2 : a primary source : origin.
It would appear that principles are our fundamental and underliying beliefs, morals are about what we believe to be right /wrong or good/bad in relation to our principles, and we then formulate how to act congruently to our principles and morals to develop our ethics.
If we act congruently to our principles, morals, and ethics, our behavior is considered to be ethical and have integrity. If our actions are not congruent to our principles, morals, and ethics our actions are considered to be unethical and lack integrity.
Values then represent what we value - the ideas, experiences, people, and relationships we consider valuable. Values are what we want in our lives. The other stuff determines how we go about getting what we want.
Now here is my jump:
The more congruent an individual's principles, morals, ethics, and behavior the more ethical their behavior and the the greater the harmony and integrity of the person as a whole.
Thoughts? Discussion?
Are there any thoughts out there about my previous post on the science supporting the physiological benefits of altruistic behavior? Anybody?
Blue, I think you mean conscience.
Blue, I don't think there's necessarily anything wrong with being selfish (looking after your own interests) as long as you don't go around hurting people, their stuff, or our common assets at the same time. It is good to know when to put yourself aside, too, and serve. And, hey, the science says you still win! Yay!
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BLUEBLOCR
Social climber
joshua tree
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Mar 18, 2016 - 09:33pm PT
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ok, who's your judge, Mooseless?
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Mark Force
Trad climber
Ashland, Oregon
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Mar 18, 2016 - 09:35pm PT
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Merrick B. Garland
He has my vote.
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MikeL
Social climber
Seattle, WA
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Mar 19, 2016 - 01:34pm PT
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Now there is all of the post-grading going on for me.
Five students have failed the course (who were supposed to be graduating), and I’ve suffered over it, fielded many emails about it, given a heads-up to my department chair, and used my wife as a sounding board to work the problem (which has been about myself). The data is the data (scores are scores), no one thing failed any student, and all 5 were in the same team. I feel like hell about failing them for about 48 hours, but it was the compassionate thing to do. First of all I had to be compassionate with myself: it caused me pain and suffering to give someone else pain and suffering. It’s ok for me to feel pain and suffering.
Compassion is a funny thing. Most people think it’s about caring for others or putting others first. I don’t see that. That’s not what I see showing up in front of me. People get the notions backwards in a fundamental way—in the same way that novices or naive subjects think that getting rid of attachments or aversions leads to enlightenment. The causality arrow is pointed in the wrong direction. When one starts to see reality the way it really seems to be, then attachments and aversions begin to evaporate.
The buddhists continually put compassion and emptiness together. When one prays and puts his or hands together, it is a symbol of the tie between compassion and emptiness. Those are heads and tails of the very same thing. When one begins to see emptiness in everything, the a feeling of compassion arises in one. Running around helping other people avoid their pain and suffering does not lead to one being a better person or an abiding sense of morality. Being selfless is not a thing to be in order to realize liberation. That’s backwards. What’s liberation? Seeing how things are. There is a reality, but it’s not exactly as concrete and serious as folks make out. It’s more *like* a dream or a display.
The more I saw the situation with my 5 students to be essentially unsubstantial, not so very serious, not so concrete, then compassion arose and I saw them more (and myself) more clearly. There / here we are being who and what we cannot help but be. Here’s Mike expressing himself in my role as a teacher, neither the expression nor the role dominating the other. When that showed up for me, then I could relax, rest, right then and there. I could then express an honesty about what I was feeling, what my thoughts or justifications were for a decision, and extend my sincerest regrets and love to them in a time of anguish. What more could be asked for? In an odd way, everything was perfect. Here I was evolving and learning—and them too. At the end of the day in the last analysis, none of it will make a whit of difference to anyone. It’s just a grade, just a course. In the grand scheme of things, just about nothing. if anything, it is an opportunity to realize character, to realize who or what we are.
(Lovegas, I’ll try to get over to the other thread about organization later. In the meantime, I’d suggest to you that “organization” is another word for “community.” Both take a lot of energy to keep from falling apart.)
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Mark Force
Trad climber
Ashland, Oregon
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Mar 19, 2016 - 01:56pm PT
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The biggest thing that people seem to get wrong about compassion is that they think it is always about being nice. Sometimes compassion is about being distinctly not nice.*
*IMHO ;-)
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BLUEBLOCR
Social climber
joshua tree
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Mar 19, 2016 - 04:40pm PT
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Thank you MikeL, that almost felt real;)
i see also another compassion in you i admire. Teaching. i think it should be #1 on the list! Doctors? i think theirs is more business(big money and notoriety). Nurses, maybe.. But to make one's life work about going back and educating the new recruits to walk in a straight line, why, why that should be the definition of compassion! Seriously.
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Jan
Mountain climber
Colorado & Nepal
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Mar 19, 2016 - 07:46pm PT
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Thanks Jim for the morals vs ethics explanation. I'm not sure the dictionary would finesse it like that but I think our contemporary mind does. Because morals became so rigid and so associated with sexual mores that were made obsolete by modern contraception, most people dislike the word morals now. So many English words ruined by heavy judgementalism!
Thus, ethics is probably the best term going forward, particularly since many people nowadays are interested in developing some kind of more general and universal ethics that could be applied to all of humanity and the natural world as well, leaving the details, especially people's intimate lives, up to themselves and their immediate tribes and communities if that's important to them.
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Mark Force
Trad climber
Ashland, Oregon
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Mar 19, 2016 - 09:09pm PT
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secular ethics
mikel, raw and real
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Jan
Mountain climber
Colorado & Nepal
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Mar 19, 2016 - 09:57pm PT
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Yes, I always thought it was a mistake to assume that if we couldn't teach religion in public schools, then we couldn't talk about ethics either. I could even dream that if we brought back talk of secular and universal ethics, the pressure from certain religious groups to teach their version might subside.
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