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i'm gumby dammit
Sport climber
da ow
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Nov 22, 2014 - 09:48am PT
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"Alcohol is not the answer, it's a depressant"
This is true. And when I said it technically was a solution, that was a joke. While ethanol is not a solution, all hard spirits (vodka, etc.) are.
And in regards to sleeping with someone else, that only works if you're interested in the new person. Otherwise it can just make you aware that you're not ready to move on.
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Fossil climber
Trad climber
Atlin, B. C.
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Nov 22, 2014 - 07:08pm PT
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It may take a little time, but there are few things more liberating than falling out of love.
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Norwegian
Trad climber
dancin on the tip of god's middle finger
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Nov 22, 2014 - 07:33pm PT
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yea even though love is shite
we still want it.
that 'ol comfort in suffering jive.
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Daphne
Trad climber
Northern California
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Nov 22, 2014 - 07:40pm PT
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During my last break up i found great solace in "i will survive", the extended version, especially when sung at full volume in my car on the freeway.
The complete cut off, aka the no contact rule, is also very important.
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Lynne Leichtfuss
Sport climber
moving thru
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Nov 23, 2014 - 06:25pm PT
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I believe in evolution, the beautiful creation of earth, humans, animals and all other living beings, as well as the universe.
But how do you explain the pain, hurt and heartache of life on this planet?
Double Dog Dare you to answer.......
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Leggs
Sport climber
Made in California
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Nov 23, 2014 - 06:30pm PT
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Hi Karen... I am so sorry for the current emotional position you find yourself in with this recent breakup.
I don't suggest you get drunk and laid, I simply suggest you be true to you, your values, your desires, passions, and most important, listen to your heart and trust your instincts.
May your healing be at a pace you are comfortable with.
~Peace and Hugs, Leggs
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stunewberry
Trad climber
Spokane, WA
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Nov 23, 2014 - 06:36pm PT
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Brian up thread said it. To reiterate, I think it was Winston Churchill who first said, "When you are going through hell, keep going."
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Lynne Leichtfuss
Sport climber
moving thru
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Nov 23, 2014 - 08:46pm PT
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Right on, Leggs!
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Leggs
Sport climber
Made in California
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Nov 23, 2014 - 08:56pm PT
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Right on, Leggs!
Thanks, Lynne!
You go, Karen... you GO, GIRL!!! You GOT THIS, step by step. And not alone, either.
~High to the f*#king Five, Ladies!!
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climbski2
Mountain climber
Anchorage AK, Reno NV
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Nov 24, 2014 - 03:39pm PT
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Getting drunk and laid, truth be told, only works for men....
Don't know if it really "works" for us either. But it's what we do.
Be free Karen.. go get your dream adventures on! You will find the right person to share with.. or at least you will have some great adventures.. can't lose.
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