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Srbphoto

climber
Kennewick wa
Aug 28, 2012 - 09:50pm PT
a witch turned me into a newt.














I got better!!!
tradmanclimbs

Ice climber
Pomfert VT
Aug 28, 2012 - 10:22pm PT
When I was 8 or 9 yrs old I used to ride my bannana bike to a friends house about six or 7 miles up the road and this one nasty dog chased me every time I went by their trailer. I was terrified of that dog. I saw these WWII british army combat boots in the surplus store and begged my dad for them. They were way too big for me but I had to have them. The very next day I wore my new used combat boots on my bike ride and when that dog came out and chased me I kicked it one good solid one in the chops. It ran home and never bothered me again.

Goatboy. be as nice to humans as you are to dogs;)
goatboy smellz

climber
Nederland-GulfBreeze
Aug 29, 2012 - 05:21pm PT
This is me being nice, things would be a lot different if I was in the same room.

So Silver did you ever apologize to the neighbor for killing their dog?
Chaz

Trad climber
greater Boss Angeles area
Aug 29, 2012 - 06:11pm PT
When I was a kid, we would ride our bicycles on the local golf course, jumping the hills and mounds like Evel Knievel ( if you wipe out, you just hit grass ) It was great fun - but I'll bet the groundskeeper thought different.

Of course, we couldn't ride while people were golfing, for obvious reasons. So, we'd wait around for evening at the top of the course until the last party of the day played by.

The faster the last party played through, the earlier we could get to our riding.

At least a couple times, in an attempt to speed things along, we picked up a ball hit close to our position, and placed it in the hole, the theory being a zero-putt hole plays much more quickly than one four-putted.

So there are at least a couple af guys out there who believe they have aced a hole, when in fact they haven't.

We stopped doing that because it didn't speed things along at all. Just the opposite. Golfers will search everywhere but the hole for their ball first, and then when they finally find it, they'll waste a bunch more of our time shaking hands and slapping each other on the backs celebrating.
Beatrix Kiddo

Mountain climber
ColoRADo
Aug 29, 2012 - 06:29pm PT
When I was a little kid I popped my cherry on a banana seat bike. . .with the bike.

I don't hold my booze very well. I'm a puker.

I almost got arrested in Ouray for a bar fight.

I saw the Monkees in concert for their comeback tour in the 80s.

Oh here is a good one. . . I ran the naked bike ride in Telluride this year. Unfortunately my tampon string was hanging out. I didn't realize it at the time. I'm still hoping this does not randomly appear on youtube.

I'm ashamed of myself. :-)



Beatrix Kiddo

Mountain climber
ColoRADo
Aug 29, 2012 - 06:31pm PT
My pleasure! It made me laugh too after I realized what I had done. hahahahahahahaha!
Oplopanax

Mountain climber
The Deep Woods
Aug 29, 2012 - 09:59pm PT
I used to write crazy letters and postcards. I'd glue stuff on them and write in blood and all sorts of weird sh#t. Then I'd pick a name and address at random out of the phone book and mail them off to the chosen people.
mrtropy

Trad climber
Nor Cal
Aug 29, 2012 - 11:26pm PT
I like what silver did!
MisterE

Social climber
Aug 29, 2012 - 11:34pm PT
I am all of the avatars you wonder about.
Captain...or Skully

climber
Aug 29, 2012 - 11:38pm PT
You guys are Kooks! I guess I really am Bland.
Crimpergirl

Sport climber
Boulder, Colorado!
Aug 29, 2012 - 11:43pm PT
Meh. That's no secret Mr. E. :)
nature

climber
SoSlo, CO
Aug 30, 2012 - 01:04am PT
I like rubber chickens
Srbphoto

climber
Kennewick wa
Aug 30, 2012 - 01:08am PT
If it was my kid I would ask them what they were doing to the animal, then let the owner know what happened. At what point does killing the animal seem like a good idea? Maybe for a chickenshit loser.

It sounds like you assume the kid was the problem.

I've been bitten 3 times. I was obviously taunting the dogs. First time I was delivering the newspaper to the house. The other 2 times I had the audacity to ride my bike down a public street.


BTW I don't agree with killing the dog (usually the owners are the ones needing to be taken down).


In high school we had a place at Clear Lake, CA and I got so drunk one night I had to throw up. I was sleeping outside and instead of using my parent's bathroom (didn't want them to know) I used the common area bathroom. Unfortunately I missed the garbage and covered the floor. The next morning I went over to the manager's office (who's daughter I was with the night before) and told him someone threw up all over the bathrooms and they needed cleaning. He thanked me for letting him know.
mucci

Trad climber
The pitch of Bagalaar above you
Aug 30, 2012 - 01:15am PT
Munge thinks I like Bud light Limes.....

Heh.
tradmanclimbs

Ice climber
Pomfert VT
Aug 30, 2012 - 07:27am PT
Let's get this straight. Goatboy is threatening the life of a human who killed a dog that bit and possibly terrorized that human when the human was a minor possibly a long time ago? We don't really know the details or how long ago but lets just assume since we are mostly old farts this threat of great bodily harm is over an incident that happened 40 years ago?

This is a reacuring patern in our society. The dog is revered, the human condemed.. It's a f*#ked up world we live in where people will do anything for a stray dog, take it in, feed it , give it a bath and snuggel up with the dog yet we will cross the street to stay as far away as possible from a stray human.... Fer fcks sake most dogs in this country get better health care than millions of uninsured humans do.
goatboy smellz

climber
Nederland-GulfBreeze
Aug 30, 2012 - 07:31am PT

mrtropy
Trad climber
Nor Cal
Aug 29, 2012 - 08:26pm PT

I like what silver did!

It's the cowardly thing to do.
Thanks for letting us know the real you.
goatboy smellz

climber
Nederland-GulfBreeze
Aug 30, 2012 - 08:00am PT
Tradman, Silver's problem may go a little deeper than you're willing to think.


Disturbed by a high pitched cry, three year old Christopher's mom walks in to the living room to find him swinging their new kitten around by the tail. Five year John's babysitter witnesses John repeatedly blowing a loud horn into his dog's ear, laughing at the animal's obvious distress. Ten year old Liam's older brother discovers him holding a lighter flame to the family guinea pig's foot.

Since the 1970"s, research has consistently reported childhood cruelty to animals as the first warning sign of later delinquency, violence, and criminal behavior. In fact, nearly all violent crime perpetrators have a history of animal cruelty in their profiles. Albert deSalvo, the Boston Strangler found guilty of killing 13 women, shot arrows through dogs and cats he trapped as a child. Columbine shooters Eric Harris and Dylan Klebold boasted about mutilating animals for fun.

At the same time, most parents have been upset by some form of childhood cruelty to animals - whether it's pulling the legs off of a bug or sitting on top of a puppy. We struggle to understand why any child would mistreat an animal. And when should we worry? Where's the line between a budding serial killer like Jeffrey Dahmer and normal curiosity and experimentation?

Motivations Behind Animal Cruelty

Most commonly, children who abuse animals have either witnessed or experienced abuse themselves. For example, statistics show that 30 percent of children who have witnessed domestic violence act out a similar type of violence against their pets. In fact, the link between animal abuse and interpersonal violence is so well-known that many U.S. communities now cross-train social-service and animal-control agencies in how to recognize signs of animal abuse as possible indicators of other abusive behaviors.

While childhood and adolescent motives for animal cruelty has not been well-researched, interviews suggest a number of additional developmentally related motivations:

"Curiosity or exploration (i.e., the animal is injured or killed in the process of being examined, usually by a young or developmentally delayed child).
Peer pressure (e.g., peers may encourage animal abuse or require it as part of an initiation rite).
Mood enhancement (e.g., animal abuse is used to relieve boredom or depression).
Sexual gratification (i.e., bestiality).
Forced abuse (i.e., the child is coerced into animal abuse by a more powerful individual).
Attachment to an animal (e.g., the child kills an animal to prevent its torture by another individual).
Animal phobias (that cause a preemptive attack on a feared animal).
Identification with the child's abuser (e.g., a victimized child may try to regain a sense of power by victimizing a more vulnerable animal).
Posttraumatic play (i.e., reenacting violent episodes with an animal victim).
Imitation (i.e., copying a parent's or other adult's abusive "discipline" of animals).
Self-injury (i.e., using an animal to inflict injuries on the child's own body).
Rehearsal for interpersonal violence (i.e., "practicing" violence on stray animals or pets before engaging in violent acts against other people).
Vehicle for emotional abuse (for example, injuring a sibling's pet to frighten the sibling),"
Animal Cruelty: Are There Types of Abusers?

I'm not aware of any formal typologies that exist for children who abuse animals. However, as a rule of thumb, it may be useful to use the following guidelines in trying to assess whether or not the problem is serious or can be easily addressed. Caveat: These are general guiidelines and each situation should be evaluated individually..

The Experimenter: (ages 1-6 or developmentally delayed). This is usually a preschool child who has not developed the cognitive maturity to understand that animals have feelings are not to be treated as toys. This may be the child's first pet or s/he doesn't have a lot of experience or training on how to take care of a variety of animals.

What to do: To some extent, of course, this depends on the age and development of the child. In general, though, explain to the child that it is not okay to hit or mistreat an animal, just as it's not okay to hit or mistreat another child. Humane education interventions (teaching children to be kind, caring, and nurturing toward animals) by parents, childcare providers, and teachers are likely to be sufficient to encourage desistence of animal abuse in these children,

The "Cry-for-Help" Abuser: (6/7 - 12). This is a child who intellectually understands that it is not okay to hurt animals. This behavior is not due to a lack of education' instead, the animal abuse is more likely to be a symptom of a deeper psychological problem. As previously noted, a number of studies have linked childhood animal abuse to domestic violence in the home as well as childhood physical or sexual abuse.

What to do: Seek professional assistance. While I'm a big believer in parents' abilities to weather many of the normal ups and downs of childrearing without professional assistance, this is an exception. It is not "normal" for a child this age to intentionally mistreat an animal.

The Conduct-Disordered Abuser: (12+) Teens who abuse animals almost always engage in other antisocial behaviors - substance abuse, gang activities, Sometimes the animal abuse is in conjunction with a deviant peer group (an initiation rite or as a result of peer pressure), while other times it may be used as a way to alleviate boredom or achieve a sense of control.

What to do: Get professional help immediately. If possible, enlist the support of friends, family members, even teachers.

The Bottom Line

Every act of violence committed against an animal is not a sign that a person is going to turn out to be a homicidal maniac. Particularly with young children, whose natural exuberance and curiosity can lead to some unpleasant experiences for their pets, it is fine to shrug off an occasional lapse in judgment while continuing to educate the child about humane animal treatment.

However, locking a pet inside a closed space, violently lashing out at a pet after getting in trouble with a parent, or taking pleasure in watching an animal in pain are all "red flags" that signal the need for professional intervention. This is particularly true when the child has the cognitive maturity to understand that what s/he is doing is wrong - and repeatedly does it anyway.

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-human-equation/201104/children-who-are-cruel-animals-when-worry



FinnMaCoul

Trad climber
Green Mountains, Vermont
Aug 30, 2012 - 09:23am PT
Holy thread hijack, Batman.

When I was in my early teens I was at a boyscout jamboree. At the time a bunch of us had this penchant for walking around with these huge oak staves ala Robin Hood.

The place was jammin with thousands of scouts all over the place competing in various events. I forget what event we were at, but a bunch of us were milling around waiting for our turn.

This older dip#$@t teen had been getting after a few of us younger guys for days. I don't even remember what he finally said or did that finally set me off, but I took that oak staff and tried to take his fool head off with it.

The intended target ducked out of the way and some random teenager running full tilt boogie took the home run swing right in the teeth. As I melted into the crowd I saw the kid spit out all of his front teeth, top and bottom.

Full on chaotic scene ensues, ambulance and the like. I just disappeared, drifted back to our camp. Maybe a half a dozen of my friends saw what happened, but nobody said a word.

Later, my mother, who was on duty as the camp nurse, mentioned all the excitement about the kid that had gotten all his teeth knocked out. They were not baby teeth. I never said a word.

I have lived with the guilt for years, knowing that somewhere out there some guy has a full bridge on top and bottom because of something that had nothing to do with him.

Mungeclimber

Trad climber
the crowd MUST BE MOCKED...Mocked I tell you.
Aug 31, 2012 - 09:41pm PT
Munge thinks I like Bud light Limes.....

Heh.


pft, KNOWS you like BLL
MisterE

Social climber
Aug 31, 2012 - 10:13pm PT
Speaking of Budweiser, I actually like having a Chelada sometimes right after work.

I smoked a methamphetamine-laced joint once long ago (without knowing it), and it really fukked me up...for 2 days.

I have done LSD close to a hundred times in my life, the first time at 8.

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