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nita

Social climber
chica de chico, I don't claim to be a daisy.
Aug 25, 2015 - 10:15pm PT
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KK1982...Do you know how Brian's Grandma is doing?.....I always think of her when i see this memorial thread..
neebee

Social climber
calif/texas
Aug 25, 2015 - 10:21pm PT
hey there say, nita...
i just heard the other night, from email, that she is doing good healthwise, i too, have thought of her much, since then... oh my...

so that part, as to her feelings, etc, i can't share too much, on, of course, since i am not family, etc,--but, i am sure our prayers and best wished, etc... will do her good...


:)
neebee

Social climber
calif/texas
Aug 26, 2015 - 04:56pm PT
hey there say, nita... oh yes... will surely do that!!! sending it tomorrow then!

great team work here... :)
Flo Rogers

climber
LasVegas
Sep 7, 2015 - 06:45pm PT
Hi everyone, take a moment to think of Brian tomorrow he would have been 47 on his birthday 9/8. On the anniversary of his death some of us went to a very special climbing location and scattered his ashes there.

It brings me comfort that his ashes have also gone to other cherished places including Yosemite, Bisbee, Seneca Rocks, El Protrero, Red Rock and Zion.

Grandma is doing OK, and Diesel is in great health.

neebee

Social climber
calif/texas
Sep 7, 2015 - 07:39pm PT
hey there say, flo... great to hear that the gramma is well, and here's hopes for her to be surrounded with special things, tomorrow, on that hard
day...


in her corner...
neebee

Social climber
calif/texas
Sep 8, 2015 - 01:51pm PT
hey there say, ... bump, for flo's request...
MarkWestman

Trad climber
Talkeetna, Alaska
Oct 1, 2015 - 10:43pm PT
In May of 1999, Paul Roderick and I flew by Brian, Bridwell, and crew while they were in the middle of the wall section of the Bear Tooth's east face, on what became the route "The Useless Emotion".

I was making another pass through my slide collection and found this shot I got of them on the wall. Thought someone might like to see. One is the full frame, the other is a blowup from the same image.

Had a fun time hanging out with these guys in Talkeetna before their climb, it was quite a party!


Blow up of the above image:


the albatross

Gym climber
Flagstaff
Oct 3, 2015 - 06:16pm PT
Thanks for posting those pics Mark Westman. That sounds like an incredible and gnarly ascent. I remember Brian telling me that is was so cold that he would breathe on the cams to get them to open enough for placement. He questioned if the cams would actually "cam" (spring open) on a fall in those frozen conditions.

Here is what Jim Bridwell had to say about part of the climb:

"Bad weather kept us grounded for a day, but the next afternoon Fly’n Brian and I hauled supplies and set up a hanging tent at our high point. We melted snow and settled in for the night. In the morning, in bad weather, we climbed four more pitches and returned to the tent. Terry and Brian Jonas hauled more food and fuel, and I spent the night with Terry, who had never slept in a hanging tent. The weather was atrocious the following day, so Terry and I rappelled to save food and fuel. Late the next day, four of us hauled food, fuel and another hanging tent to spend the night when the weather turned to sh#t.

Avalanches of spindrift cascaded over the fragile tents though the black hours. In the morning I peeked out the zipper door to a winter wonderland. Real horror show stuff... an avalanche brought rapid door closure. I brushed the snow off me into the tent bottom and snuggled back in the bag to do the hang.

Around noon, Fly’n Brian could hang no more.

“I’m going up,” he declared with purpose in his voice. I spent the night in the tent with a crazy guy, I thought.

“Really,” I said. “Have you looked out?”

An hour later, he was on the ropes. I was impressed. I have never seen anyone climb technical rock in conditions this bad. I remember this being the most technical pitch to my previous high point. A pendulum to loose hooking…lots of it…with little protection, then looking for two rivets on the snow-plastered wall.… This ought to be good, I pondered..."


Read the whole story and see a crux pic here:
http://publications.americanalpineclub.org/articles/12200003700/The-Bears-Tooth
the albatross

Gym climber
Flagstaff
Jan 8, 2016 - 02:11pm PT
Thinking about you today Brian.

Read story in link posted above to get details behind this pic.
Gnome Ofthe Diabase

climber
Out Of Bed
Jan 8, 2016 - 03:14pm PT
Amazing
incredible
superior
From the link:

. . . . ( flyin' Brian, on the sharp end ) . . . Hooking must have been tough with everything hidden under snow. Then came a crashing rattle of hardware and excited language. Soon after, a repeat performance was heard through the hiss of avalanches. A while later, a great sigh of relief signaled Fly’n Brian’s success. When I quizzed him that evening, he confessed, “I wanted to see what it would be like.” The following day, it cleared. Terry and Brian Jonas would try to fix two more pitches while the rest of us went down to get enough supplies to finish the route. That same afternoon, we hauled to the hanging bivy as Brian Jonas finished the second lead. The next morning, Fly’n Brian and I ascended the ropes to our high point. I began leading the rock-chopping pitch, which required chopping holes in the rotten rock to place camming devices. Fly’n Brian used the wooden belay seat as a shield while I worked through crumbly rock. I was literally breaking new ground. He followed, grumbling about the lumps he had received while belaying.
Burt

Social climber
Angelus Oaks, Ca
Jan 8, 2016 - 04:11pm PT
Thanks Albert! Yeah been thinking about the man a lot lately. He would be so stoked to see Chads setup with the resoling, to see how big my kids have gotten, and surprised at the way this page has evolved. He was a fundamental part of so many lives, some who he never thought he had an impact on. He is missed, still cant delete his name from my phone which is totally weird, but still makes me think he is just a call away. I got some of those Totem Cams and I wanted to call him and tell him what I thought about them, so I sighed and told him anyways. My neighbors must think I'm a whack job sitting out in the shed talking out loud about camming units. I laughed and laughed at what I thought his answers would be and then smiled thinking that he would have some snarky remark about a little bit of everything.

Kurt Burt
overwatch

climber
Jan 8, 2016 - 04:14pm PT
Damn that thing is big!
neebee

Social climber
calif/texas
Feb 4, 2016 - 02:51am PT
hey there say... just a bump...

Burt

Social climber
Angelus Oaks, Ca
Feb 4, 2016 - 09:21pm PT
Bad night tonight Brian. Dave Mirra decided he had enough and smoked himself. Just reminds me of you. . I f*#king hate you tonight Brian. I just feel alone. These are the kinds of nights we would hang out and talk about the sh#t that makes us alone, the sh#t that bothers us, and then just smile that somehow we have a bond that so few have. I f*#king hate that you aren't here. I want to go find the limit again, but if feels so far away, almost untouchable without you here. I hear your voice still on my voicemail that I can't delete and tonight I yelled at it. I f*#king hate you for leaving me here to deal with this f*#ked up world. It's so lame that I write this on this page but somehow it feels like these is the only way to vent anymore. See you around homie.

Kurt Burt
thebravecowboy

climber
The Good Places
Feb 4, 2016 - 09:31pm PT
Burt, I thought of the hole Capt. McCray left when I heard about Mirra, too.

Peace be upon you.


and may all those so suffering find the strength to open up, to seek the perspective of another.
John M

climber
Feb 4, 2016 - 09:51pm PT
It's so lame that I write this on this page

It ain't lame. Its the real. Lame is when we fight on the internet about stupid sh#t. Sharing your hurt for the loss of a great friend is the gritty stuff that has meaning. Your hurt expresses that Brian meant something to someone. That someone is you. Thats no small thing.
nita

Social climber
chica de chico, I don't claim to be a daisy.
Feb 4, 2016 - 10:12pm PT
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Burt, So sorry to see you are suffering tonight.. Loss is never easy , it can wash over you when you don't expect it...
You are not alone , we are here with you. Wishing you peace & Love.

Hold on..
[Click to View YouTube Video]
Thinking about Brian's Grandma also..

Saludos..
Nita.
Big Mike

Trad climber
BC
Feb 4, 2016 - 10:16pm PT
Burt. Thank you for sharing here. Real emotions are what makes this place great. We are with you whether you know it or not.

Peace be with you brother.

neebee

Social climber
calif/texas
Feb 4, 2016 - 10:19pm PT
hey there say, burt... say, remember this:

there is a reason that brian was in your life, in the first place...

hang on to this and see if you can put it to good use...

SOMEONE OUT THERE, needs the same help, right now, that he gave you...

(i remember the story of your accident, and hospital and recovery) ...


instead of letting the loss tear you down, every time you cry,
let it ADD JUST THAT MUCH bit of watered tears, to help you
grow just a tad, so you can then, GO out and do what he did for you,
for someone there, that just MIGHT not make it, if someone
does not show up, ... even as he SHOWED up,

in your life...

you can do... i just have a feeling, that YOU CAN...


break down, cry, and let some new buds GROW at the break...
do it again, as needed...

and... you will be a 'new tree of life' for someone...

and they will glad that your branches, come near them...

amen...









nita... keep the gramma in your prayers...
just an important side note, here...

we can send her a card, too... it would be a good time...
(older age, you know, can weary the body) ...
nah000

climber
no/w/here
Feb 4, 2016 - 10:28pm PT
+1 John M
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