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zBrown
Ice climber
Brujo de la Playa
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Apr 30, 2014 - 01:59pm PT
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V is very likely going to end up penniless or more likely in big debt.
I had to read up on all this sheeit once. I can see where Attorney Sterling might be required to reimburse the community, but I don't see where V. would be. Admittedly, I didn't go far enough into it to examine the impact of findsings/accusations of fraud etc on the part of V.
Went to the Big Apple, took a bite (or got bitten).
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HighTraverse
Trad climber
Bay Area
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Apr 30, 2014 - 02:05pm PT
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From yesterday's LA Times
"everyone present had "NO doubt" that Sterling is the man" refers to NBA lawyers who listened to the tape at V's lawyer's office.
But TMZ Sports says everyone present had "NO doubt" that Sterling is the man on the recording, after listening to the 15 minutes that were made public.
The site is also reporting that sources who have heard the entire hourlong recording say Sterling absolutely knew he was being recorded. TMZ Sports has reported Stiviano has said she has more than 100 hours of recorded conversations with the 80-year-old Sterling, who is said to have used the tapes to refresh his memory because he frequently forgot what he said. So say TMZ Sports.
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blahblah
Gym climber
Boulder
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Apr 30, 2014 - 02:20pm PT
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Yeah....I don't think that's the primary reason, exactly. It's pretty hard for any person...male or female... to not consider the wealth and potential financial security that a mate could bring to them and their lives together. I'd agree with you to the extent that the wealth disparity is more likely with a male, probably related to the social dominance that men have in this culture.
No, the reason why old guys like (relatively) younger women is just basic evolutionary biology. Old guys are still fertile, old women are not.
Old guys who go around impregnating young women genes are more likely to be passed on. It therefore gives them an evolutionary advantage.
Old women who "mate" with young men will not get pregnant. It confers no evolutionary advantage.
Note that this is a consequence of basic human physiology. It has nothing whatsoever to do with "social dominance" or "wealth disparity." (Although it is possible that social factors add to the physiology that I have explained, that is pure speculation.)
While the above explanation is irrefutable, let me ask a question to anyone who may remain unconvinced:
Which is more common:
Old goat reading Playboy (or modern equivalent)?
Old cougar reading Playgirl (or modern equivalent)?
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HighTraverse
Trad climber
Bay Area
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Apr 30, 2014 - 02:20pm PT
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potential repercussions of 'going nuclear' V's attorneys claim they don't know who actually gave the tape to TMZ and apparently there are many more hours of tape. Could have been someone paid by Mrs. S or a business rival or potential buyer of the Clippers.
The wheels of justice turn slowly but grind exceedingly fine. (proverb)
The truth will become known eventually
Shakespeare, Merchant of Venice
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apogee
climber
Technically expert, safe belayer, can lead if easy
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Apr 30, 2014 - 02:30pm PT
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blahblah, both the genetic and the practical (financial) elements play a role in why one gender might choose an older mate.
And there's a whooooole lot more to the equation, too.
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HighTraverse
Trad climber
Bay Area
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Apr 30, 2014 - 02:33pm PT
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No, the reason why old guys like (relatively) younger women is just basic evolutionary biology. that's rather silly. Possibly true in earlier times when procreation was an imperative.
Not even true for Henry VIII who took young Anne Bolyn because none of his earlier queens had given him a male heir. A political imperative.
And of course because she was a physical and intellectual hottie by all accounts. Why'd he whack off her head? No male heir (stupid Bustard, Queen Elizabeth I was one of the best monarchs in English history) and he believed she was plotting against him and/or screwing around (history still unclear).
Do you think Sterling is wanting children?
No
it's social/sexual status
"I've got the hot babe that all you young studs want. Because I'm a fossil it proves I'm richer and more powerful"
An older man wanting children is not likely in Spermling's case. Rich old Bustard exploiting a young woman for status and ego.
In my opinion.
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Norton
Social climber
the Wastelands
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Apr 30, 2014 - 02:35pm PT
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Do you think Sterling is wanting children?
No
it's social/sexual status
+1
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AKDOG
Mountain climber
Anchorage, AK
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Apr 30, 2014 - 02:38pm PT
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Basic human physiology is young people mating (best chance at healthy reproduction), the social order is rich old dudes with power also get young people to mate with. Old poor dudes don’t get sht.
Listening to Sterling he most likely has some mild dementia, his family should be worried that some gold digger is going to fleece their inheritance as he seems like an easy mark.
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blahblah
Gym climber
Boulder
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Apr 30, 2014 - 02:42pm PT
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OK apogee and HT, I can see you remain unconvinced; it may require more explanation of evolutionary biology ("EB") than I am really qualified to give or is appropriate for this thread.
But please do remember that the biological impulses affecting Sterling and his ilk are not necessarily operating at the conscious level.
Here is a related point: most men think sex is pleasurable, and desire it even when the don't desire children. They may even have had a vasectomy.
But those studied in the science of EB will explain that the reason men perceive sex to be pleasurable is because of EB, even when the impulses are no longer relevant to modern conditions or even the conscious desires of a particular specimen.
Thus with Sterling--he is not necessarily conscious of why he desires a relationship with a young (fertile) woman, and he consciously does not want children with her, but nevertheless EB provides the key to understanding this "relationship."
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Jon Beck
Trad climber
Oceanside
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Apr 30, 2014 - 02:44pm PT
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his family should be worried that some gold digger is going to fleece their inheritance as he seems like an easy mark
Where is Anna Nicole Smith when you really need her?
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HighTraverse
Trad climber
Bay Area
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Apr 30, 2014 - 02:44pm PT
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Attorney Sterling might be required to reimburse the community That doesn't work. He would be taking "community" $$ to pay back the $$ he spent from the "community" (community being the marriage). From his right pocket to his left.
No, if there's any restitution it comes from V.
Mrs Spermling wants her pound of flesh.
Shakespeare Merchant of Venice: Portia
//A pound of that same merchant’s flesh is thine.
The court awards it, and the law doth give it//
Shakespeare nails human avarice and vice.
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apogee
climber
Technically expert, safe belayer, can lead if easy
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Apr 30, 2014 - 02:47pm PT
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"...I can see you remain unconvinced;"
Actually, blah, I agree that there is a genetic role in mate selection & age...
I just don't think that it is the only role in the equation. It's just not that simple.
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HighTraverse
Trad climber
Bay Area
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Apr 30, 2014 - 02:52pm PT
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blah blah
I have no argument against the evolutionary biology explanation until a recent time.
As humans became more social creatures, status began to affect individual success. Attaining food, wealth, mates, beyond the biological imperative becomes an end in itself. Pride and avarice. Avarice is obvious in Spermling's case if you look at his enormous belly. Most Buddha statues would envy it.
The "biological imperative" to produce more children is the great excuse for denying contraception and for polygamous marriages.
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Reilly
Mountain climber
The Other Monrovia- CA
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Apr 30, 2014 - 02:58pm PT
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SuperTopo! No stone left unturned!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Marlow
Sport climber
OSLO
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Apr 30, 2014 - 03:07pm PT
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... and no worm left lonely... lol...
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fluffy
Trad climber
Colorado
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Apr 30, 2014 - 03:28pm PT
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Where is Anna Nicole Smith when you really need her?
Decomposing in a buried piano box
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healyje
Trad climber
Portland, Oregon
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Apr 30, 2014 - 03:28pm PT
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DMT: the bluey is not a racist. Come on now. He's just trolling you guys. He doesn't believe and especially, he doesn't live the sh#t he spews. Well now, that would be a possibility if there was any inkling of premeditation or cogency in anything he says.
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Crimpergirl
Sport climber
Boulder, Colorado!
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Apr 30, 2014 - 05:44pm PT
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So, if it is just natural and mother nature's way when an 80 yr old hooks up with a 30 yr old, then why does this 'natural' arrangement make her a whore or a gold-digger? Wouldn't that just make her a product of nature? Sounds like the way God would want it. Why all the hate TOWARD HER then?
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apogee
climber
Technically expert, safe belayer, can lead if easy
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Apr 30, 2014 - 05:46pm PT
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These greybeards are just jealous, CG.
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Reilly
Mountain climber
The Other Monrovia- CA
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Apr 30, 2014 - 05:51pm PT
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Why all the hate TOWARD HER then?
Cause she isn't a real Clippers fan.
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