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evenkeel
climber
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1/2 your age plus 7 is the golden rule
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Captain...or Skully
Big Wall climber
up Yonder (someplace else)
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Hey, I shower every so often, whether I need it or knot....why,at least 10, 12 times a year.
(Sparkly clean).
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Lynne Leichtfuss
Social climber
valley center, ca
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t*r, still thinking as I do my yard work....
1) In answer to your question....Who cares .... most guys you want don't.
2) To your own self be true. Don't change your persona to fit another person. It won't work. Just be a Great You !
Another ST big sis here. lrl
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MisterE
Social climber
My Inner Nut
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I'm with Jay. Ewww!
I likes me some mature women - they know what they want!
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originalpmac
Trad climber
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personally I am way to young to date girls half my age (21) but with that said, the last two girls I dated for an extended period of time were a few to six years older and I have had enough of THAT! all knowing what they want and where they are going... screw that. I know where I am heading and it is not down! seriously my last girlfriend was there for my twenty-first b-day and she asked me to MARRY her! (not on my birthday, thank god) straight up asked me to give up my aspirations of being a guide, traveling the world etc... so for NOW i should be dating clueless 19 year olds. probably won't hurt my head so much...
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dmalloy
Trad climber
eastside
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>>i'm not dating for a fling; i'm dating for a ring.
Maybe *that* should be your tattoo? Your dating life will never be the same....
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Lynne Leichtfuss
Social climber
valley center, ca
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I'm getting the impression that too many think age is more important than it is. Find someone you are attracted to and really get along with. Date, communicate and don't hook up with the idea you are going to change the person.
Some of the guys comments re: sex are valid. I can't tell you how many guys tell me they spend their nights in separate bedrooms. Bad.
After marriage, many women tend to get too involved with jobs, kids etc. and the guy of their dreams gets put on the back burner so to speak.
Your relationship should be first, then kids, extended family, job etc. IMHO of course, now out to wash the car.
Hey, it's Labor Day !!!!!!!!
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GDavis
Trad climber
SoCal
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"i'm not dating for a fling; i'm dating for a ring."
You should say this on first dates.
why do women only want guys with money or a truck?
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MisterE
Social climber
My Inner Nut
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She's good at trolling, I'll give her that!
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Captain...or Skully
Big Wall climber
up Yonder (someplace else)
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A truck makes any gal 43% hotter, regardless of age......
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dirtineye
Trad climber
the south
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Because many men are basically overgrown children, and they need someone on their level.
I have friends who are female and drop dead gorgeous and under 20, but the thought of a relationship with them makes me cringe, even though I really like em as people.
THEY'RE KIDS.
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Captain...or Skully
Big Wall climber
up Yonder (someplace else)
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Hey, Dirt,They don't have trucks, do they?
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Seth Luedtke
Mountain climber
Chicago
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I'm 20 and I hate young girls, they are imature and stupid. I'd give anything to find someone that is responsible and can carry a conversation about more then just the alst time they got f*#ked up at some bar blah blah blah.
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LuckyPink
climber
the last bivy
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:Are women stoked to find a man half their age?"
Absolutely, works out very well, a younger man is more playful, more intellectual, more open to ideas, has more stamina...the list goes on
BUT an older man is more focused, has more serenity, makes long range plans, is less drama - prone.. has stability of character
Men are such gorgeous creatures.
EDIT: plus the older man usually has two trucks
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HighDesertDJ
Trad climber
Arid-zona
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Let's all start threads with asking questions with really obvious answers.
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Paul Martzen
Trad climber
Fresno
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" i'm not dating for a fling; i'm dating for a ring. "
Try dating just to learn about other people and let them learn about you. When you date, try doing activities that encourages interaction and do as big a variety of activities as possible. This way you each see as many different aspects of your personalities as possible.
At the end of the date, try to be as honest as possible with the other person. Tell them what you liked about the date and what you did not like.
If you are only after a ring, you will try to make yourself look as good as possible, even better than you actually are. You might be disdainful of the weaknesses of others. But, we need good partners because of our own weaknesses.
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originalpmac
Trad climber
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Yeah Seth those are all great points until they ask you t marry them... run for the hills was my preferred escape.
I guess the my idea of perfect right now would be young, though intelligent, motivated, thoughtful, etc. wish me luck
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Captain...or Skully
Big Wall climber
up Yonder (someplace else)
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+43% for most trucks, +52% for your truck.....
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