Who Is Sending Abusive Emails to Me?

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capseeboy

Social climber
portland, oregon
Feb 13, 2019 - 01:28pm PT
Whoever it is, their probably getting some glee over your posting your distress. The mentally ill often times do not know they are ill. Sorry for your grief.
Lynne Leichtfuss

Sport climber
moving thru
Feb 13, 2019 - 01:31pm PT
Tobia, great and practical suggestion.
Chaz

Trad climber
Straight Outta Crafton
Feb 13, 2019 - 01:58pm PT
It's someone who knows how to spell. That definitely narrows down the pool of suspects on here.
johntp

Trad climber
Punter
Feb 13, 2019 - 01:58pm PT
It's a shame you are getting hassled. I count you as friend and have no clue why someone would do this to you.

Like Jody?

Even banned, he's still stirring the pot.

Jody would never do anything of the sort. With regards to hassling happie.
Reilly

Mountain climber
The Other Monrovia- CA
Feb 13, 2019 - 01:59pm PT
Chaz, harsh! 🤣
ECF

Big Wall climber
Ridgway CO
Feb 13, 2019 - 02:33pm PT
That’s really not that abusive.
I get much worse.

It’s the cost of having an opinion these days.

Don’t let it get to you, it doesn’t mean anything.
10b4me

Social climber
Lida Junction
Feb 13, 2019 - 02:57pm PT

If you really want to find the source you can, at least the IP address and a map of it's location. Post it, someone may recognize the location.

Navigate to an IP tracking site such as IPchecking.com, IPtrackeronline.com or IPaddresslocation.org.
Copy and paste the IP address that the email originally came from into the appropriate field. If you can't ascertain the originating IP, use the tool that allows you to paste the entire email header.

(We tracked down a student who was harassing a teacher through school email system. It didn't take long to end it once the IP address was shown on the map.)

Except 1- this person is using a fake email addy

or

2- they are using someone else's computer

divad

Trad climber
wmass
Feb 13, 2019 - 03:13pm PT
It's a trumpy who can spell. That really narrows it down...
JLP

Social climber
The internet
Feb 13, 2019 - 03:27pm PT
His grammar is ironically awful for a guy pointing out a spelling error.
limpingcrab

Trad climber
the middle of CA
Feb 13, 2019 - 03:34pm PT
Whoever is doing that must be really bored, and pretty lame, but here's my (unsolicited) advice. Please note that it's meant to be helpful.

From what I've noticed on ST, Happie seems to get unhappy pretty easily. You've had some good advice on this thread and already became upset and insulted the posters because you saw insult where none was intended.

It's definitely not your fault that some turd is harassing you, but maybe letting it roll off and ignoring them would make life more enjoyable for you. Nobody is "telling the woman to just be good," they are trying to give helpful advice.

Being upset or offended is a choice, and it's a choice that the email author wants you to make. Don't give them the pleasure or yourself the stress.


Edit: isn't there a troll on here named Trump? I'm not a detective, but maybe they did it.

Lorenzo

Trad climber
Portland Oregon
Feb 13, 2019 - 03:40pm PT
I’m confused.

Do you want more or fewer abusive emails?

I could forward the ones I get if you want.

You might have to change to grumblygrrl3, though.


Welcome to the internet age.
johntp

Trad climber
Punter
Feb 13, 2019 - 03:50pm PT
You might have to change to grumblygrrl3, though.

Lay off. Happie hangs here. She has as much right to vent as anyone.

Why do the posers here need to run female posters off? We've lost Tami, Crimpie and others. When will you guys grow up?
Lorenzo

Trad climber
Portland Oregon
Feb 13, 2019 - 04:05pm PT
If we grew up we wouldn’t be climbers.
Roots

Mountain climber
Redmond, Oregon
Feb 13, 2019 - 04:12pm PT
Stop encouraging or excusing this sh#t.

WTF did I post that gave you the idea that I am encouraging or excusing this sh#t? I am trying to get her to stop being like the ass that is hassling her.

And John I don't give a sh#t if Happie is a girl or boy...who gives a sh#t about stuff like that. I'm calling hate - what it is - hate and today she seems full of it with a couple of her comments.

Call a spade a spade...
ECF

Big Wall climber
Ridgway CO
Feb 13, 2019 - 04:17pm PT
Sam is right, break the cycle.
Show love to those who offend you.

It’s infuriating to the hater.
tradmanclimbs

Ice climber
Pomfert VT
Feb 13, 2019 - 04:30pm PT
Happie, sorry you are being hassled. Trolls suck!
ExfifteenExfifteen

climber
Feb 13, 2019 - 04:38pm PT
Ever wonder why this community drives away women?

No, I don't wonder. I care more about the awesome climbing content that gets deleted, than whether a very opinionated person can't handle the heat...
ECF

Big Wall climber
Ridgway CO
Feb 13, 2019 - 04:42pm PT
Hold on there John, that’s sexist!
Men and women are equal now.

Jim Clipper

climber
Feb 13, 2019 - 05:41pm PT
Illegitimi non carborundum
johntp

Trad climber
Punter
Feb 13, 2019 - 05:41pm PT
Not when it comes to being victims of harassment...

YES! We have so few female posters because of teenage testosterone. There are a lot of really good female climbers out there but they have left because of the idiots that get off on harassing them.
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