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zip

Trad climber
pacific beach, ca
Topic Author's Reply - Nov 8, 2009 - 07:26pm PT
Locker,

no troll, real deal, just don't have time for an in depth response right now.

she doesn't really want to go out with me, cuz i have never been married, no kids, etc etc

how's your daughter? will she be released same day? would you like me to send her a floral arrangement on behalf of all your supporters here?

Buggs

Trad climber
Corrales, New Mexico
Nov 8, 2009 - 07:38pm PT
Love the single mother that is in front of you.
hossjulia

Trad climber
Eastside
Nov 8, 2009 - 07:39pm PT
zip, used to be a rule of thumb that if a guy had never been married by the time he was 30, forget about having a serious LTR with him.

Most important question, does she climb? Because that changes EVERYTHING. hehe

locker, sorry man, you're way funnier than I am.
How the heck are you anyway?

zip

Trad climber
pacific beach, ca
Topic Author's Reply - Nov 8, 2009 - 07:51pm PT
she'll be in my thoughts and prayers.

want me to send something?
hossjulia

Trad climber
Eastside
Nov 8, 2009 - 07:55pm PT
Dang John, you beat me to it. That was meant for her prying eyes to be deleted, which it has been.

locker, your daughter is in my thoughts, I sure hope everything turns out OK.

zip, listen to the woman, she has already made up her mind, don't push it.
John Moosie

climber
Beautiful California
Nov 8, 2009 - 07:56pm PT
Hey Julia, don't let Lois' poison get to you.
zip

Trad climber
pacific beach, ca
Topic Author's Reply - Nov 8, 2009 - 08:04pm PT
hj,

ok, you available?
hossjulia

Trad climber
Eastside
Nov 8, 2009 - 08:13pm PT
Now hold on a second here, John, were you not in Bishop this very Am, having coffee next to Smoke's course? (Yeah, I'm slow and get faces and names mixed up so I'm probably wrong.)
zip, you live in PB. Which I did too once upon a time.
It's about a 10 hour drive.
John Moosie

climber
Beautiful California
Nov 8, 2009 - 08:19pm PT
Hey Julia, I wish.

But No.. I live in Wawona and was here this morning. Unless I have an alter ego. haha..

I don't think that I have met you yet. Except here on the Taco.
Jaybro

Social climber
Wolf City, Wyoming
Nov 8, 2009 - 08:47pm PT
Not sure that at my age, I could date someone without kids, (or who at the very least doesn't 'get' kids) think of the life experience they are ignorant of. You can only describe the parable of the Cave, so many times...
John Moosie

climber
Beautiful California
Nov 8, 2009 - 08:57pm PT
Pure poison. Ignore her Julia.

Sorry Jaybro, but I don't know why you would invite such an angry mean person back to the taco. She may be nice to you, but watch your back. She disses on single women, then gets pissy when she gets called on it. Her excuse is always. oh.. I didn't mean you. Bleh.. Sick of that crap.

John Moosie

climber
Beautiful California
Nov 8, 2009 - 09:10pm PT
Yes, Moosie, I know. It is all so terrible. I'll clue you in on a little secret. I only get "pissy" with people who attack me. You won't find one single example - here on ST or anywhere else - where I ever initiated any hostility toward anyone.

I have already disproved this once. In fact it is the only time you have ever apologized on the forum, even though you are often nasty. Your early post on this thread and on many other threads could be deemed mean and nasty towards single moms, of which Julia is one. So no, Lois, she did not attack you first. If you can't see that, then you are blind. If you have no empathy towards a woman who has had to raise a child by herself, then you are heartless, but you have proved that over and over.

Get lost Lois. Or get over yourself. One or the other. I don't care which.

I would rather be cussed out by a genuinely decent person, such as Julia, then have your poison disguised as being nice, pointed at me.


Edit to Add.. If someone as basically decent as Julia lost her temper with me, then I would look to see what mistake I made. But not Lois. Nope, she never never never makes a mistake. bah.
Jaybro

Social climber
Wolf City, Wyoming
Nov 8, 2009 - 09:31pm PT
Sis, how did locker get your graduation yearbook photo? you know I'm sworn not to share it.

It's true though, family tells. I blew up at Lois the other day, about as bad as it gets. Drew a line in the sand everything, and yet, here we are. I wanna say "it's all good", but that's such a cliche, donchya think?


I don't think we've met, Moose but I generally appreciate the things you say here. I only met our mutual friend Karl a few years ago, way over due, at the time. Give Lois enough rope and she auto asphyxeates her self, all the time, but she comes back and has interesting things to say, and she is, in her way, completely sincere, she can grow on you. Let's go climbing! I can't get her to even belay me, these days.....
John Moosie

climber
Beautiful California
Nov 8, 2009 - 09:34pm PT
She feels attacked because it was an attack. Your explanation is just an excuse so you can continue to be mean.

Once again you fail to see your failings because you are so stuck in your ego. Hey world, Miss Lois never never never makes a mistake or does something wrong. At least according to her.

Oh well, stay stuck, but don't think you can get away with your nastiness here. Do You ever wonder why so many normally nice people get into so many fights with you ? I bet you think you are some sort of catalyst. You should get over yourself.


What you know of my world is nothing.
dogtown

Trad climber
JackAssVille, Wyoming
Nov 8, 2009 - 09:39pm PT
How old are the kids? It's all about the kids make no mistake.
John Moosie

climber
Beautiful California
Nov 8, 2009 - 09:45pm PT
Jaybro, I have a lot of respect for you, but I think you are misguided on this subject.


As for climbing, thank you for the offer, but I am the poster boy for how not to heal an achilles, so don't climb anymore.

.
Mighty Hiker

climber
Vancouver, B.C. Small wall climber.
Nov 8, 2009 - 09:48pm PT
25/90 posts by, and mostly about, LEB.

Anyway, enough about me. Let's talk about LEB.
Big Piton

Trad climber
Ventura
Nov 8, 2009 - 09:52pm PT
1) Don't give them your real name.

2) Don't let them know were you live.

3) Don't let them "feel" you.

4) Don't date a single mom, if you want to be single.

5) If all else fails follow rule 2.

MMM
zip

Trad climber
pacific beach, ca
Topic Author's Reply - Nov 8, 2009 - 09:54pm PT
Healyje,

thx for bringing us back on topic.

congrats on a successful relationship and beautiful family.

did you have any initial anxiety or hesitation about getting involved with a single mom?
John Moosie

climber
Beautiful California
Nov 8, 2009 - 09:56pm PT
No Lois, I don't "want" you to be the villian. I am just tired of how you are Never the problem. It is always the other person. How many people have had problems with you on this forum? Lost count? Because I have. When someone says they have a problem with something you said, even if they cuss you, if they are a decent person, then you don't stick a dagger in them as you did with Julia and your insincere post about having a nice summer. Yet you do this all the time and I don't understand why good people like Jaybro ignore this, though it is probably from some mistaken belief that to be loving they have to accept everyone, no matter how foul.

Decent people don't do this. They learn. You owe all the single women on this forum an apology, and I don't mean a half assed insincere apology as you have offered me in the past.



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