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Braunini
Big Wall climber
cupertino
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Thanks for checking in
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lostinshanghai
Social climber
someplace
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Slidmo is a Narc.
“I might have stopped long ago if not for the curious attacks on me by those who are not Licky. Why do you care?”
“As I told you fellas before in previous posts:”
". . . you hate yourself for reading it but you just can't skim past my posts and press the ignore switch . "
". . . You don't have to read it. I might have stopped long ago if not for the curious attacks on me by those who are not Licky. . . ."
". . . just ignore what bugs you - why is it that all you other morons have difficulties editing your reading content? if you don't like what you read then don't read it, seems simple enough to me . . ."
". . . you can skip reading any post you choose so if I bother you you're just bothering yourself . . ."
“Why is it so difficult for you to believe me when I (honestly) say that I don't give a rat's ass what you or anyone else thinks about me -and that weakens you and empowers me. You can guess and accuse all you want, and you're just entertaining yourself.”
“Where do you get that assumption? Not that "I'm not the guy I'd like you to think I am" but the other one embedded there: the one that "I'd like you to think I'm any particular guy, or kind of guy."
“I hate to break this to you, yet again Licky, et.al. I also hope it doesn’t shatter your obviously fragile ego, but”
“I DON’T CARE WHAT YOU THINK - REALLY!!!!!”
“If I did, why would I?”
Slidmo you are a Narc, have been and always will be but in a pathological form as in having a narcissistic personality disorder (NPD),
Some of the best clues come from your own words especially “I DON’T CARE WHAT YOU THINK - REALLY!!!!!” posted 60- 70 times or have said it?
Narcissism is a term that originated with Narcissus in Greek (1590s) mythology who fell in love with his own image reflected in a pool of water[in the case of you "Slidmo’s reflection was when he was cleaning and looking into too many toilets on MCA buses long ago. "lay gazing enraptured into the pool [toilet], hour after hour,"
Ever notice all the time posting with “does not care what we think of him? That’s the first clue:
80% of the traits/symptoms that fits his conditions:
An obvious self-focus in interpersonal exchanges.
Problems in sustaining satisfying relationships.
A lack of psychological awareness.
Difficulty with empathy [A lack of empathy involves a poor sense of communication that fails to understand the perspective of the audience.]
Problems distinguishing the self from others.
Hypersensitivity to any insults or imagined insults.
Vulnerability to shame rather than guilt.
Detesting those who do not admire them.
Pretending to be more important than they really are.
Bragging (subtly but persistently) and exaggerating their achievements.
Claiming to be an "expert" at many things.
Inability to view the world from the perspective of other people.
Denial of remorse and gratitude.
But which ones would slidmo see himself as: one or all?
Magical thinking: Narcissists see themselves as perfect, using distortion and illusion known as magical thinking. They also use projection to dump shame onto others.
Arrogance: A narcissist who is feeling deflated may reinflate by diminishing, debasing, or degrading somebody else or all.
Envy: A narcissist may secure a sense of superiority in the face of another person's ability by using contempt to minimize the other person or persons.
#2 clue……….
Entitlement: Narcissists hold unreasonable expectations of particularly favorable treatment and automatic compliance because they consider themselves special. Failure to comply is considered an attack on their superiority, and the perpetrator is considered an "awkward" or "difficult" person. Defiance of their will is a narcissistic injury that can trigger narcissistic rage. and that weakens you and empowers me like you say in your Narc own wording.
“Rage” How many times 100? But the rage is you: not the creator or people trying to communicate with you Slidmo.
Are you more of the closet narcissist that is more likely to be described as having a deflated, inadequate self-perception and greater awareness of emptiness within? The exhibitionist narcissist would be described as having an inflated, grandiose self-perception with little or no conscious awareness of the emptiness within. Such a person would assume that this condition was normal and that others were just like them.
Clue # 3…………… both
The closet narcissist seeks constant approval from others and appears similar to the borderline in the need to please others. The exhibitionist narcissist seeks perfect admiration all the time from others.
Maybe an unprincipled narcissist: including antisocial features. A charlatan—is a fraudulent, exploitative, deceptive and unscrupulous individual.
Could you be a compensatory narcissist: including negativistic (passive-aggressive), avoidant features.
Or more like this one:
The fanatic type: including paranoid features. These people are fighting delusions of insignificance and lost value and are trying to re-establish their self-esteem through grandiose fantasies and self-reinforcement. If unable to gain recognition or support from others, they take on the role of a heroic or worshipped person with a grandiose mission.
“Life is a stage, and when the curtain falls upon an act, it is finished and forgotten. The emptiness of such a life is beyond imagination”. No stage for you slid, no lights, not even an audience; just lay gazing enraptured into your toilet, hour after hour,".
Oh! Taking a guess you must be thinking “where is my source coming from”:
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Licky
Mountain climber
California
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Topic Author's Reply - Apr 4, 2014 - 01:01am PT
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I don't see it as an insult, simply bringing the chicken home to roost
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zBrown
Ice climber
Brujo de la Playa
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Two more tunnels. No fatalities and interestingly, no drugs.
http://www.chron.com/news/crime/article/2-tunnels-found-under-California-Mexico-border-5376798.php
Are these tunnels just a diversion to keep eagle-eyed border watchers from seeing all the illegal contraband being flown in via drones? Another interesting phenomenon; nobody dies when a drone crashes, except in the unforunate instance when it lands on somebody.
It's got me wondering whether there are drone mini-trains that traverse (is this what you do in a tunnel) the netherworld below. Holy sheeit, is this a drone train? I know it's not the last train to Clarksville, that for sure.
Addendum:
I was with you (and still am) at Los Tinsha, but I couldn't follow after
nGhai?
so I'll just say:
if it takes a lot to laugh
and
a train to cry
What does a crashed Lodestar in the pass portend?
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sidmo
Sport climber
general delivery
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You guys are so stupid - the guy who don’t care what you did or who you are is the narc? Not the guy who wants to know all about you and what you did? Yeah that really makes sense . . . not
give it up you laptop shrinks - you'll never get why I do anything, especially not you licky - I post because it annoys me to see a user like licky get the free pass he does not deserve
stay in his camp though, he needs you guys
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Licky
Mountain climber
California
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Topic Author's Reply - Apr 9, 2014 - 12:36am PT
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sidmo...I have an idea for you. I've posted a sh#t load of facts, stories, and the like on this forum. Why don't you use it all to come up with your own publication? Hell, I'm actually giving you the green light to show us what you can do. Publish here or publish it as a money making story. You up to the challenge?
Now I'll understand if it takes you a little while to research all of the postings, but you have enough time don't you?
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sidmo
Sport climber
general delivery
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Apr 10, 2014 - 12:00am PT
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Do you really need another distraction lick? Just do your thing, and I'll do mine. You're wasting time, I'm killing time - there's a big difference. You recommend looking back in the postings, take your own advice. You'll see that I stated long ago that you need a deadline - all writers do. Don't take it as an insult, just accept the fact that you're not exceptional. Needing a deadline is normal - writing a book without an editor breathing down your neck is not. The internet has everyone with a story to tell believing he can publish without all those pesky deadlines and editors. That's what you believed ten years ago, but it didn't turn out like you'd planned, did it Licky?
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Braunini
Big Wall climber
cupertino
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Apr 10, 2014 - 01:14am PT
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Licky
Mountain climber
California
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Topic Author's Reply - Apr 10, 2014 - 02:05am PT
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Very poor side step sidmo
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cuvvy
Sport climber
arkansas
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Apr 10, 2014 - 04:35pm PT
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I'm just curious if I will receive any college credit for this online course in psychology?
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sidmo
Sport climber
general delivery
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Apr 10, 2014 - 11:18pm PT
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SIDESTEP? ARE YOU PHUCKIN KIDDING ME?
God licky, just when I think you might be getting it . . . sidestep? Really? WHY?
EARTH TO LICKY - YOU HAVE BEEN DELUDING YOURSELF, SUPERTOPO, ANYONE ELSE WHO'S BELIEVING YOUR HYPE - YOU ARE TEN YEARS BEHIND IN A PROJECT ABOUT A PLANE THAT WILL NEVER GET OFF THE GROUND . . . THE PROJECT, NOT THE PLANE, IT ALREADY CRASHED, YOU'RE NEXT - YOU'RE A FRAUD, OR AN INEPT LOSER, OR A NARC, OR ALL OF THE ABOVE, BUT YOU AINT NO DAMN WRITER AND NEVER WILL BE - SIDESTEPPING? SIDESTEPPING? YOU NEED TO WALK YOUR MANUSCRIPT IN A STRAIGHT LINE TO A PUBLISHER AND HIM GUFFAW - YOU'LL NEVER GET INKED WITHOUT A TATTOO, MORON
SIDESTEP, THATS A GOOD ONE - WHY WOULD I FEAR YOU LICKY?
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Braunini
Big Wall climber
cupertino
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Apr 10, 2014 - 11:23pm PT
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Jaybro
Social climber
Wolf City, Wyoming
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Apr 10, 2014 - 11:27pm PT
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Is it a bad sign when they start shouting?
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zBrown
Ice climber
Brujo de la Playa
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Apr 10, 2014 - 11:33pm PT
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I'm just curious if I will receive any college credit for this online course in psychology?
What college are you enrolled in?
What are Licky and sidmo's credentials?
Are Licky and sidmo actually the same person, as has been alleged?
Why is it taking so long to write a very short story?
Where are sidmo's timesheets?
Where are Licky's timesheets?
Where is the raw data of this enterprise in the event that Licky/sidmo
dies before the project is either:
a. completed
b. self-destructs
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sidmo
Sport climber
general delivery
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Apr 11, 2014 - 09:47pm PT
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i'm not shouting now, i only shout at licky, whoops, i mean myself and there is no book andre, only a thread and a promise
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WBraun
climber
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Apr 11, 2014 - 09:55pm PT
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Little sidmo = Confirmed psychopathic narcissist nutcase
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sidmo
Sport climber
general delivery
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Apr 11, 2014 - 11:07pm PT
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And what are you brauny? I'm not credentialed to psychoanalyze you, but of course, you are educated, trained, certified to do the same to me, right? Well you might be certified . . . a certified moron
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Licky
Mountain climber
California
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Topic Author's Reply - Apr 13, 2014 - 02:39am PT
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I feel your pain sidmo. Its ok...we know
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sidmo
Sport climber
general delivery
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Apr 13, 2014 - 10:45am PT
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Well my pain is your pain I suppose, and since I feel no pain I'm glad you do instead. You don’t get one thing here lick, YOU are the goat in this drama, like it or not - not me. Try as you might to deflect criticism from you onto me (or chainsaw, et. al.) you, and only you have the onus of completing the book. With the glory goes the criticism. That's all on you, pal. And there's plenty of criticism to go around until, and possibly after you publish. Take it like a man and stop sniveling. You cry like a baby girl (apologies to all the fathers of daughters.)
Here's a link to an ad I saw - you look it over, I don't need to:
http://www.iuniverse.com/LP02F01C029.aspx?Cat=PPC&LS=SearchEngine&SRC=Google&KW=BookPublishingDN&GKW=WriteOwnBookImageAds&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=BookPublishingDN&utm_content=WriteOwnBookImageAds&gclid=COOigqDW3b0CFchQ7AodfDMAuw
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