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ElCapPirate

Big Wall climber
California
Aug 22, 2011 - 05:34pm PT
They [Ammon and Kait] say call WOS "the hardest route on El Capitan." Not "a hard route." Not "one of the hardest routes. "THE HARDEST ROUTE."

Just for the record, I have NEVER claimed this. LOL
the Fet

climber
Tu-Tok-A-Nu-La
Aug 22, 2011 - 05:40pm PT
That definition of style and ethics is different from almost everyone I've ever talked to about it.

In my experience most people think of climbing style and ethics the way Mountaineering: The Freedom of the Hills describes them.
Paul Martzen

Trad climber
Fresno
Aug 22, 2011 - 06:00pm PT
Hey Richard,

Well, I have to admit my scenario is a made up story based on my impressions from occasionally reading through this and the other threads. But if you think it is a good story, maybe I will keep using it.

I have never read your book, maybe some excerpts, but of course many of your posts. I usually enjoy reading your posts, though I often disagree with your reasoning or viewpoints.

Two guys persevere in their quest to spiritually introspect in the crucible of hard climbing, despite dogs pissing on trees and an even harder route than they had bargained for. They leave a route behind that they themselves are unable to judge for subsequent appeal or objective quality
This is a story that appeals to me. I can relate to it and find it inspiring. I did this thing and I don't know if it is any good by others standards, but I did it cause I wanted to and it changed me in some ways. These are the things I enjoyed about it and these are the ways I feel it changed me.

The other story, I don't like so much.
knowing only that the route they left does not resemble the route the critics (having never seen it) say is there. They spend decades responding to defamation about themselves and the route, and in the end the most strident claims of their critics are finally shown and widely understood to be without merit.
or any of that tripe that matters so much to our critics regarding their own routes.
I, personally, simply wasn't playing the game that most other FA teams around here are playing. If the route goes away, and if the whole thing fades into obscurity, that's fine by me. All I've really cared about over the decades is to correct the defamation and debunk the liars, because THEY made this personal. And even as recently as today, the likes of SG continue to make this personal.

It is not a very inspiring story to me. I have not walked a millimeter in your shoes, but it seems to me that all of us face challenges and hurtful criticisms in various ways. I have a sister who, when she is mad at me, which is a lot, hurls any hurtful accusation at me that can come to her mind. Many are off the mark, but some are accurate. They all hurt. Should I take the time to logically disprove her every statement? Would that make everything fine?.

Paul Martzen

Trad climber
Fresno
Aug 22, 2011 - 06:11pm PT
Thanks for the compliment Deuce. I usually feel like I chime in just as everyone is going to bed. Then my hours of thinking about some subject feel wasted. Probably wasted anyway, but at least the feeling is different.
madbolter1

Big Wall climber
Walla Walla, WA
Aug 22, 2011 - 06:14pm PT
No, Paul, you shouldn't bother disproving every misstatement she makes. But let's hold the analogy on point, shall we?

Instead of her SAYING hurtful things in a closed context from which you can easily escape, she publicly says hurtful and untrue things about you in public contexts. She basically incites riot (and I'll support that statement if necessary) and incites gangs of people to surround you in public places, threaten you with violence and property damage, and then follows you everywhere in groups to hurl garbage and shyte down on you. Then she engages in yet more public and untruthful tirades against you, publishing in books and magazines, holding you up for public ridicule. Everywhere you go, groups of people gather around you to threaten you and call you foul names. This goes on for decades and includes defamation in virtually every form of public media, so that there is no escape within the community, as she and her gang of well-connected critics ensure that the public opinion sees ONLY her "take" on you.

Oh, and then, for years and years, every time to try to defend yourself, the herd tells you to "get over it" and that you are "too defensive." And your even trying to call attention to the PRINCIPLE of the thing and the ongoing multi-decade nature of it is recast as over-sensitivity, as though this was a one-time insult that you just don't have the character to "get over" like a normal person would.

Even now that story sounds like whining, which it really cannot sound any other way. But I'm honestly completely unemotional as I write it. There are just some objective facts here about how we were treated. Our story (uninspiring to you or whatever) is fact, and it really doesn't correlate with your analogy at all.

Thanks for saying that you enjoy my contributions, even when you usually don't agree. "Agreement" really isn't my goal in most cases. Something like understanding will go far enough. At times I think that perhaps you're almost there.
Mighty Hiker

climber
Vancouver, B.C.
Aug 22, 2011 - 06:16pm PT
The one about turning the other cheek may apply. Soon enough the facts will hopefully speak for themselves. Or is that just theory?
madbolter1

Big Wall climber
Walla Walla, WA
Aug 22, 2011 - 06:23pm PT
Yeah, Mighty, this is where the rubber meets the road with that principle. I'm sure you don't want a theology lesson, so I'll spare you. But when there is a principle of systematic abuse, you go after it.

If it were not the case that as recently as today we were basically told that "boys will be boys," so it's all okay, I'd be a lot more prepared to lay down that particular aspect of the fight. But this "sh|t happens" mentality just doesn't get it.

Besides, strictly speaking, we HAVE been turning the other cheek. We have not responded in kind: no lies, no threats of violence, and no shyting on the critics, among other things. LOL
graniteclimber

Trad climber
The Illuminati -- S.P.E.C.T.R.E. Division
Aug 22, 2011 - 06:25pm PT
ElCapPirate, if that's not you, you might want to have a word with the people running your film web site.

Richard, I don' think you were being overly defensive before when most people (including myself) were taking the "bolt ladder" claims at face value, but that was years ago. Most people are on your side now. There are vocal people attacking you (most obviously Steve and Mimi) but they're in a minority now.

Also, you're never going to get everyone to fully agree with you. Your route was of a very different style than most of those in the Valley at the time. Hooking up a featureless slab instead of linking features. That doesn't appeal to everyone. Someone can say, I don't care how much damage is done to the rock as long as you're just lining natural features--but I don't like routes just going up slabs. That's just their preference.

Again, I wonder if the reception had been different if the route was on similar slab in the Meadows rather than in the Valley. I think that it would be. The Meadows are full of run-out bolted slab climbs.
Gene

climber
Aug 22, 2011 - 06:41pm PT
Anything new posted here in the last few weeks?
yo

climber
Mudcat Spire
Aug 22, 2011 - 06:45pm PT
Gene

climber
Aug 22, 2011 - 06:46pm PT
Thanks, Yo,

Thought so.

g
TwistedCrank

climber
Ideeho-dee-do-dah-day boom-chicka-boom-chicka-boom
Aug 22, 2011 - 06:49pm PT
Anything new posted here in the last few weeks?

madbolter1 posted a snippet about grannysex.
madbolter1

Big Wall climber
Walla Walla, WA
Aug 22, 2011 - 08:04pm PT
Heh, well, if you think a civil lawsuit is equivalent to the tactics employed by our opponents, they I guess I've considered "not turning the other cheek" (by some measure). Didn't quite seem like the same thing to me. But to each his own.
madbolter1

Big Wall climber
Walla Walla, WA
Aug 22, 2011 - 08:05pm PT
Crank, I guess now I see where the level needs to be. LOL
graniteclimber

Trad climber
The Illuminati -- S.P.E.C.T.R.E. Division
Aug 22, 2011 - 10:57pm PT
You're entitled to your own opinion but not your own facts.
Mimi

climber
Aug 22, 2011 - 11:14pm PT
graniteclimber, you ignorant slut:

"Would WOS have been received differently if it had been put up in the Meadows instead of in the Valley? What if it was put up in the exact same style but went up a steep slab on Fairview?"

John Bachar would have walked up to the base and asked them nicely to please leave. The situation would have been different and much more decisive.
nick d

Trad climber
nm
Aug 22, 2011 - 11:27pm PT
Yeah, John would have been swinging on those guys but quick!
Captain...or Skully

climber
or some such
Aug 22, 2011 - 11:36pm PT
Lol. That is all. Throughout.
And always.
jfs

Trad climber
Upper Leftish
Aug 23, 2011 - 12:25am PT
Man I hope I never have the misfortune of meeting this Mimi in person. Not that she'll care what I think...I've never met her. But I see absolutely nothing redeeming in her posts here online. At the very least, her online persona is sickeningly juvenile, pitifully immature, and filled with the kind of hate and anger I don't want anywhere near my life.

What a wasteful and sad life. Sincerely...it is an utter waste. And utterly pitiful.

And I certainly don't understand her defenders who know her outside of the taco. I expect my friends to hold me accountable for ALL of my actions. I don't get a free pass just because I'm typing instead of speaking. My friends would rightfully disown me ... or at least call me out on it. I'd not count them as my friends if they didn't call me out.
Da_Dweeb

climber
Aug 23, 2011 - 12:25am PT
Werner –
Thanks for the reply.

Da_Dweeb

What do you want from me?

I can't do anything here.

Let these guys do their thing.

It's not important.

Don't meddle in another mans vice ......

Well, I can see where you’re coming from on a number of these points.
This has been going for years, it seems like we’re powerless to change the way this dance goes at this point. It seems pointless to even try. But I have heard you express the sentiment on several occasions that you would like it to go differently. That after 30 years there could be some resolution or detachment. Correct me if I’m putting words in your mouth, but based on previous posts you’ve made, that’s generally the impression that I have gotten. If that’s the case, you’re not alone, and I’m thinking some change in the way things go is in order here. I also am not yet prepared to despair of that possibility.

I can't do anything here.
As I said in the previous paragraph, I can understand the sentiment. However, I think that you have more potential to be effective here than you give yourself credit for. As I said, you are a well respected individual and your opinion carries a lot of weight. I believe that puts you in a position where you have more capacity to do good here than you may realize.

Certainly during this current salvo, nothing useful can be accomplished – they’re going to have to finish unloading, and when they have, there’s a possibility of helping things to go differently at that point.

Let these guys do their thing.

It's not important.

Don't meddle in another mans vice ......

Well, I can see how all of this isn't very important. It’s just a rock climb. It’s just a territorial fight. What happened happened, and if people can’t move on from it, then maybe the best thing to do is let them fight it out without pointless interference. However, if we take this into the realm of personal meaning, I can see differently – it _is_ important. Very important. To them. To all of the major players. If it weren’t important, all of this would have died down a very long time ago. From an existential point of view, everything has as much value as we as individuals assign to it. Stay with me, I’m going somewhere with this.

I believe I’ve heard you say similar to this, but correct me if I’m wrong. Given its intensely personal nature, this fight has conjured a staggering volume of bile and venom, and look at what’s happening to some of the participants – that venom, that bile is etching their reputations, their rock climbing careers, even their spirits and souls. And, while I will understand if you feel differently, that is important to _me_. I am hoping to a certain extent it’s important to you as well, and I believe based on prior posts by you that to at least some extent it is.

I’m not saying it’s our responsibility, our obligation, or our duty to change things here, but I will say that the opportunity for us to attempt to improve this situation presents itself. And the choices we make ultimately define who we are, in the personal and the spiritual realm. I don't know about you, but for me personally, I’d like to be the person who strives toward that opportunity. Again, I’m hoping to at least some extent the same is true of you.

What do you want from me?

Well, as I see it, this whole plan depends on some level of cooperation between you and me. Any plan I put forth by myself will be shot down – and for good reason. It’s well known and established that I firmly support Mark and Richard. I don’t think there’s any excuse at all for what has been done to them, and I don’t see any possibility at all that I’ll change my mind on that. So I need the help of someone who DOESN’T have that point of view. Someone who doesn’t necessarily agree with that assertion, and who can approach the other camp without immediately being taken for an enemy. So how about this – just listen to what I have in mind. Send me a PM and I’ll respond to it with my idea. Give me your feedback in private, and we can either go from there or abandon the idea, if it seems it just won’t work.

Hope I’m not being too pushy here, I just feel that the timer is ticking. If this doesn’t get resolved BEFORE that SA report gets put up, I really don’t see any possibility of real closure being reached. And I see that as damaging the possibility for complete healing for all parties concerned.

Please, let me know your thoughts, and send me a PM if you want to at least hear me out.
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