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Lynne Leichtfuss
Social climber
valley center, ca
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Tyrus, took the day off to reflect on your Dad. He is indeed a great man and .... will be so missed. Not even just for his rockclimbing which was and will be the most stellar on the planet.
No, Tyrus, to me your Pop will be most remembered because he was a man that cared about People. Rhang said it well and I too have stories. I'm sure some of your Dad's best old friends that have not posted here have contacted you if they haven't already and given you their stories of bitd.
Proud Dude.....lynne
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survival
Big Wall climber
A Token of My Extreme
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Hi Lynne, you're still awake too.....
I've been reading Robert Service and tying it into John's life in my head.
Bid good-by to sweetheart, bid good-by to friend;
The Lone Trail, the Lone Trail follow to the end.
Tarry not, and fear not, chosen of the true;
Lover of the Lone Trail, the Lone Trail waits for you.
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Lynne Leichtfuss
Social climber
valley center, ca
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Yeah, Survival, I am awake cause I just cannot get past this loss. I am so thinking and praying for Tyrus and John's close ones. Peace Dude. lynnie
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Levy
Big Wall climber
So Cal
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Tyrus, my deepest condolences go out to you at this difficult time. I lost my mother when I was 15 years old & it created a void in my life that has never been forgot. Your dad was an inspiration to all of us & his passing leaves behing a great sadness to those whose lives he touched.
My sincerest sympathies to you, your mom & John's family. Bless you all.
Bill Leventhal
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thedogfather
climber
Midwest
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Tyrus, I only knew your dad through some emails but even in those few communications, you were the focus. I was the guy that was lucky enough to tape the TV shows that featured your dad back in the 70's and 80's. When I contacted him back in 2006, he was excited about getting a chance to get those clips because the copies he had were all destroyed in the fire. (they are the ones that are now on youtube). Below is the email.
Thanks Dick! Your last name sounds familiar...I'm getting old. If you ever need some shoes, I'll sport ya' a pair (=free!). It's worth it to me - I at least gotta have this stuff for my nine year old son to see I wasn't a total loser. Anyway, my address is below. If you ever need anything, let me know. Be more than happy to help out!
Your dad was a class act.
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captain chaos
climber
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Tyrus... I'm at a loss for words, all I can say is I'm very, very sorry for your loss, your father was a great man, and will be heavily missed by all of us. He was a very good friend of mine, and was one of the key people who got me into climbing. He was by far one of the most talented people I've ever known, both mentally and physically. I'm still in shock so you'll have to forgive me for not being able to write more, as I just now learned about this and I'm still not able to accept it yet. Please know you always have a place to hang you hat in Chamonix... with deep sorrow and much sadness- Craig Calonica
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shipoopoi
Big Wall climber
oakland
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tyrus, i am so sorry for your loss. your dad was a mentor to me back in the day. when i made the second ascent of the bachar yerian, it catapulted me to another level, but he basically gave me the route in a quick converssation when he said i was ready for it. i'll always be grateful to him for that confidence inspiring pep talk.
after his car accident, i restablished communication with john, occasionally calling him to see how he as doing. he was so nice to me in these calls, offering free shoes to me, and what not. i realized that john was no longer the intense, single minded individual he once was, but that he had mellowed into a kinder, gentler john bachar. and it was having you tyrus, that made him into this version
for myself, i am reeling right now because i just lost the greastest teacher i ever had. your dad was simply awesome.
steve schneider
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deuce4
climber
Hobart, Australia
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Tyrus, your dad loved you so very much. John and I were great friends back in the mid 80's, and he and I have been in touch often throughout the years. Every time I talked with John in recent years, he would tell me a story about you, how you were doing and what you were up to. John was always so proud of you, and you have been the best thing in his life.
I am so sorry for your loss, and know that your healing process will be strong through this time of passing.
Yours
John Middendorf
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dbs
climber
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Tyrus,
I have not met you. I did know your dad though. We were friends for 37 years.
Be strong, your dad is proud of you and you have his strength.
It will be hard for a while, but don't ever forget. Remember him and love him always. He will be there for you in those memories, and will carry you through all of you life.
Call anytime and I will tell you many stories that will make you smile.
Best,
Dale
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Alexander Huber
Mountain climber
Germany
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Hello Tyrus!
I am going to publish a book about free solo climbing and therefor I had been working together with your father during the last weeks. If you would be interested to get the book, then let me know!
I am very sorry for your loss, your Dad was a great man!
Alexander Huber
latok97@yahoo.de
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Shelley Mayfield
climber
Mammoth Lakes
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Tyrus, I am so sorry for your loss. Your dad is a hero and he will be remembered for a long long time, my words cannot express how I feel for you and your family right now. You are strong and your dad loved you sooo much. Shelley Mayfield
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Rhodo-Router
Gym climber
a greasy pinscar near you
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Tyrus-
Don't ever be afraid to talk about it.
Rob
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Domingo
Trad climber
El Portal, CA
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Tyrus - losing a father is impossibly hard, especially when you're young. I say that from firsthand experience. Talk about it, whenever you need to. You are so loved from so many people who can tell you stories about your dad. Hear them. Find out more about him. Take care of yourself first.
So many people love you and will support you.
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darin
climber
mammoth lakes
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tyrus....i am so sorry for your loss....i used to live in mammoth and play music with your pop....he was a great guy and will be missed....im in arcata now and see your mom and you around alot.....i hope you guys heal quickly
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burp
Trad climber
Salt Lake City
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Tyrus,
So sorry for your loss. Please know that many people are thinking of you.
Hang in there ...
Mike Hansen
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crøtch
climber
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Tyrus,
I'm really sorry about your Dad. I know he'll be with you always.
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Ezra
Social climber
WA, NC, Idaho Falls
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Tyrus,
I lost my own father at age 7 to cancer. I cried for 24 hours strait, (not exagerating). I hardly slept the first week after he died. I have never been so sad in my life, and that was 27 years ago. With time you WILL heal, but it takes a full year to start to feel like you are getting back into a routine.
I am soooo sory for your loss, we all admired your father greatly.
Best
-ezra
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shut up and pull
climber
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Oh Tyrus ... the tears were many today for you. Your dad was my idol for a long time. You will need strength in the years ahead without your dad -- stay away from drugs and booze, study hard, work hard, be honest, and give your life to something greater than yourself.
God bless dude.
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