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luggi
Trad climber
from the backseat of Jake& Elwood Blues car
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Dec 15, 2009 - 11:04am PT
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Anna...still have connections from the ole country....known as "fixers"....I think I might even have relatives connected...during the holidays I will check with a cousin who resides in so cal..they might have to pour some concrete somewhere...pool deck needs to be replaced?> opps......
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Pate88
Trad climber
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Dec 15, 2009 - 12:25pm PT
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I wasn't going to touch this thread with a 10 foot pole, but the opportunity is too good.
Luggi, you're a staggeringly huge idiot.
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luggi
Trad climber
from the backseat of Jake& Elwood Blues car
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Dec 15, 2009 - 12:35pm PT
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Pate..I ave been called worse from more distinguished people...sigh
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getalifeyoubitch
Social climber
newyorkcity
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Dec 15, 2009 - 02:16pm PT
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i think this should be deleted. how old is everyone 18? you all need to grow up and move on. ryan is once again an amazing personw with a huge heart. dont let this jealous bitch ruin everything for him because hes finally happy with his life now.
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Mtnmun
Trad climber
Top of the Mountain Mun
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Dec 15, 2009 - 02:38pm PT
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It seems getalifebitch, Ryan and his gang are only digging themselves a deeper hole with this public harrasment. Back off boys, drop it now before this gets uglier than it already is. Get some counseling for heaven sakes.
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WBraun
climber
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Dec 15, 2009 - 02:41pm PT
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Maybe that's why this thread is titled ....
Impossible Lessons
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couchmaster
climber
pdx
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Dec 15, 2009 - 03:08pm PT
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Hey Ryan, it's going to take the police all of 2 min. to verify that your computers IP address is the same as the new user who only registered to post to this thread called "getalifeyoubitch". Then they'll check your computer and verify that the message originated from your computer. These transparent shenanigans only reinforce her story and show the rest of us that your sociopathy and mental illness is real, and you need to be dealt with by the authorities, and not ignored.
Stop now, walk away and enjoy your life Ryan. It isn't worth whats going to be happening to you soon if you don't leave her alone. Bad things will be coming your way, real real bad things, just walk away and leave her alone. The police will be coming for you soon if you do not walk away. DO IT NOW! Trust me, you won't like the bad things that will be coming your way, real real bad, if you DON'T leave her be.
I'll just save these messages of yours in case the police need them. You don't mind I'm sure.
Author getalifeyoubitch
Date Dec 15, 2009 11:16am PST Forum Topic Impossible Lessons
i think this should be deleted. how old is everyone 18? you all need to grow up and move on. ryan is once again an amazing personw with a huge heart. dont let this jealous bitch ruin everything for him because hes finally happy with his life now....
Author getalifeyoubitch
Dec 14, 2009
10:49pm PST Forum Topic Impossible Lessons
i think this whole thing is complete bullsh#t. if you are truley afraid of this "stalker" than you should have gone to the POLICE FIRST and not your computer to post a blog about it. sounds like you are searching for attention. leave him alone. Ryan is a wonderful person. This crazy gypsy is off her...
Bacher may be dead, but she has plenty of friends as you can see. She's not alone and we won't let you pull this sh#t or hurt her. JUST WALK AWAY, STOP HARASSING HER! LEAVE HER ALONE, WALK AWAY JACKASS. WE ALL KNOW NOW WHO AND WHAT YOU ARE.
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chez
Social climber
chicago ill
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Dec 15, 2009 - 03:21pm PT
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All i want for X-mass is the end of this thread.
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Jingy
Social climber
Flatland, Ca
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Dec 15, 2009 - 03:45pm PT
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WOW!!!
Couch is right...
It looks as though "someone" did create the "getalifeyoub---" just for this thread....
Dec 15, 2009
11:16am PST Impossible Lessons
i think this should be deleted. how old is everyone 18? you all need to grow up and move on. ryan is once again an amazing personw with a huge heart. dont let this jealous bitch ruin everything for him because hes finally happy with his life now.... getalifeyoubitch
Dec 14, 2009
10:49pm PST Impossible Lessons
i think this whole thing is complete bullsh#t. if you are truley afraid of this "stalker" than you should have gone to the POLICE FIRST and not your computer to post a blog about it. sounds like you are searching for attention. leave him alone. Ryan is a wonderful person. This crazy gypsy is off her... getalifeyoubitch
These are the only 2 posts from "whoever" this charactor is.. Hmmmm...
WHAT A SPAZ!!!!!!
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howlostami
Trad climber
Southern Tier, NY
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Dec 15, 2009 - 03:51pm PT
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Couchmaster is the man. He is spot on, this crazy dude needs to right himself and this lady needs support from her community. Don't chalk it up as relationship drama when someone is getting abused, that's the pansy way out and truly weak. Just wanted to throw my support in the right corner of the ring.
-Tim
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HowSmallIsMySalami?
Gym climber
NY, NY
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Dec 15, 2009 - 04:01pm PT
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I'm a big man, and when I make up a new ST user to slam some bitch you can bet it's because I'm just too damn considerate, gentle, and awesome a person to bother letting you know who I am. Oh, and the fact she out climbs me as well has nothing whatsoever to do with it.
[edit: Tim, inspired by trying to read your user name, but not at all aimed at you.]
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guyman
Trad climber
Moorpark, CA.
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Dec 15, 2009 - 04:03pm PT
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Wow I was going to stay out but no way....
Couch... you are off base, really, you don't know who this new poster is...it's not what you surmise. really- think about that just for a second.
So many of you "gentle folk" think you know what "is up" and are ready to go harm someone you don't know.... for no reason.
Sort of a mob mentality, our clan, my tribe, I find it disgusting....
you would hang an innocent if you could.
cee-ya
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getalifeyoubitch
Social climber
newyorkcity
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Dec 15, 2009 - 04:40pm PT
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FYI THIS IS NOT RYAN, but we can line it up.
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healyje
Trad climber
Portland, Oregon
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Dec 15, 2009 - 04:44pm PT
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FYI THIS IS NOT RYAN, but we can line it up.
Oh, so you're just another anonymous dickless wonder - good to know.
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graniteclimber
Trad climber
Nowhere
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Dec 15, 2009 - 04:57pm PT
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"Then last year I started hearing that he was complaining that I had stolen those very same items from him. This was new... I wonder why it took him five years to think I stole something instead of when we broke up...
Anyway a year ago I received a strange email demanding them back. I ignored it since it was five years ago since the break up... The whole thing didn't sink into my reality. Especially since nothing was stolen, etc. It was a long time ago, etc. etc.
Then I started hearing that he was telling everyone he could how I stole things from him, etc. I didn't like it but... I ignored that too it since it is his trip and his lies are not my problem.
Then a few days ago I heard some disturbing news... I heard that he saw his old portal ledge and freaked out on the friend I had given it to.. He told the guy that he had stolen items, demanded it back, involved his now girlfriend and... Threatened violence... He even got my poor friend's bosses involved, placing my friend's job on the line, etc.
Now this was a new level of aggression that I could not ignore. I see him occasionally at the crags and this scares me. He is obviously obsessed and is now believing in his own lies...
Adding the numbers I am wondering when he will be going after me since he is just looking for a reason "real or not" to take aggressions out on me."
One of the advantages of being a faceless anonymous Internet "coward" is that I can call them like I see them. I can call spade a spade and speak up when I see that the Emperor has no clothes.
I am not a new atavar created for posting to this thread. I have been around for a while and I have a history of speaking my mind.
Now, let me see if I have this straight.
You had a bad break up with him 6 years ago. You dislike him and he dislikes you.
He says that you took his stuff. You say he didn't. He says bad things about you and you say bad things about him.
He sent you and email asking for his stuff back. He also asked for stuff back to someone you'd given it too.
You see this as a "new level of aggression that I could not ignore" and " wondering when he will be going after me"
So he's NOT "going after you?" But you are just wondering if he might be "going after you?" Has he been sending you repeated emails and making repeated phone calls? Has he been following you? Has he made any threats to you?
You started this thread asking, "Does restraining orders, jail time and penalties work or do they simply aggravate the behavior? How can a person reason with an irrational person???"
Then you say,
"Yes I do want the climbing community to protect me."
"I will release his name to you guys and let things happen. The only reason I am not doing that right now is... I am giving him one last chance to clean up before I return all these nice favors he has been giving me."
So did you really want to get a restraining order like you said, or are you just trying to whip up your friends and form them into a what others have called a "lynch mob" to go after your ex?
Unless you have much more then what you are describing, the police will laugh at you if you try to get a restraining order, and if anyone is in need of a restraining order it is your ex.
I'm sure you don't like hearing this, and neither do your friends, but someone has to say it.
But if I'm wrong and you really have a legitimate reason to get a restraining order, then you shouldn't be on the Taco reading this, you should be on your way down to the station to speak to the cops.
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graniteclimber
Trad climber
Nowhere
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Dec 15, 2009 - 05:00pm PT
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And for Ryan, if you wanted your stuff back, you should have acted back then. It's too late now. Forget about it and move on. If she took it, you're not the first to lose gear to an ex. And if you didn't want it back and then changed your mind, that wouldn't be the first time that has happened either. Either way, it's too late now.
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graniteclimber
Trad climber
Nowhere
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Dec 15, 2009 - 05:02pm PT
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Skip: "Stop this thread and do not allow people to threaten others just because you think you are making a point."
Skip we used to fight and trade insults in the political threads, but I came around to respect you. You form independent judgments and speak your mind. I completely agree with you on this.
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Hawkeye
climber
State of Mine
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Dec 15, 2009 - 05:09pm PT
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as DMT said, folks can post whatever sh&& they want. that does not lessen the fact that this is a pathetic thread.
do people have no shame or pride in what they air out here??? just sayin...GC is spot on.
FWIW, i don't know any of these characters but sometimes ST goes down like a jr. high school clique. this is one of those.
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Pate88
Trad climber
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Dec 15, 2009 - 05:13pm PT
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Although I'm sure skip will have a comment for me, I live by the code:
BROS BEFORE HO'S.
Anyone who gets involved in anyone else's domestic squabbles is a complete loser. It's between the BRO, the HO and if necessary, the PO-PO.
And remember- there are ALWAYS two sides to a story.
That being said- carry on with the cowardly and empty internet threats to physically hurt someone. Most of you guys look like you'd brandish your walkers and canes pretty menacingly.
edit: skip, i just read your above post and i completely agree with you, so don't be too hard on me.
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Gene
Social climber
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Dec 15, 2009 - 05:15pm PT
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Nothing good will come from continuing this thread.
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