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GDavis
Trad climber
SoCal
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I would have taken you to a Great Wok (so you know I had class and tact).
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Chaz
Trad climber
So. Cal.
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Wasn't it just last week you posted up something about some guys talking sh#t?
Maybe the guys talking sh#t are wrong.
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Standing Strong
Trad climber
heart's all over the world tonight
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AND i'm pretty happy because i was trying to get a couple kids from around town to start taking classes at the college, and they ARE.
yay!
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nick d
Trad climber
nm
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Cheers to you!
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WBraun
climber
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And? anything else we should know?
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Standing Strong
Trad climber
heart's all over the world tonight
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AND! i have been a proud vegetarian since i was twelve years old.
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Pour Some Sugar On Me
Sport climber
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u and ur booty r fantastic, T*R!!!
i can't believe someone as beautiful as you is so nice :)
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Anastasia
Trad climber
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LOL!
You go girl!
Remember my advise, gossip with time always comes back to bite the source. Also, remember that you are too beautiful to allow vile things to touch or bother you.
AF
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Fish Finder
Social climber
THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART
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perhaps your mistake was asking a friend to check it out and leaving yourself open for attack.
once out of highschool , affairs of the heart are best handled by onesself.
1. hey will you check out if that guy likes me or what he thinks of me?
or
2. hey, i like your belay technique, maybe you could spot me sometime ?
2. theres this great place on labrea called pinks , great hotdogs, wanna get some?
also a pick up can happen anywhere that you are. the minute you have expectations
of how it should happen, you are closing the doors. just admit you werent attracted to the guy at the mall who was thirsty.
the saint that i have been living with for the last five years was in the produce section at vons. i walked up started a conversation and all of a sudden the sound of thunder and strobes ....... then the misters. we got a little wet but it was funny... friggin vegetables
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valygrl
climber
Boulder, CO
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Fish Finder: "once out of highschool , affairs of the heart are best handled by onesself. "
um....
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Fish Finder
Social climber
THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART
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valygrl. um.... elaborate.
i think my point was made but just not worded to your tastes.
we dont need other people to help us find someone. we just need ourselves.
who knows us better than us.
i do see the humor in the statement though. but i did say "heart" not " heart on"
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GDavis
Trad climber
SoCal
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pix plz
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Standing Strong
Trad climber
heart's all over the world tonight
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fishfinder. UM i think you're right. BUT i don't think it makes it ok to be mean. at least *i* know who i am when no one is watching me
"Most white men have been conditioned to be big booty h8ters."
tru dat homi. i usually don't even go out w/white guys. not that i wouldn't, it's just we don't seem to click.
i kinda have a crush on the boy i took to the mtns on friday. he was really psyched to get out thurr. plus we both have blood from the same nation so that's pretty special. it's crazy that we're both out hurr in the same place at the same time. but he's in my club so i can imagine that if we broke up it might suck so probly best to just stay frenz.
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valygrl
climber
Boulder, CO
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Fish Finder, my point was this person appears not to BE out of highschool yet.
Everyone here realizes that all the personal stuff they write is ON THE INTERNET IN PUBLIC, right? I mean... would you say this stuff to your best friend? Your worst enemy? The guy sitting next to you at the bus-stop? Your boss? Your mom?
SS, what do you think the chances are that the dude who dissed your ass is READING THIS??? HUH??? The climbing community is VERY SMALL. There are at least 10 people on this board that I personally know, and one of them probably thinks I don't know who he is, even though he definitely knows who I am.
Seriously, SS..... I know this sounds mean, but you might want to keep your private life a little more private. Unless what you really are looking for is a bunch of old pervs to be thinking about your booty, which i guess is your business, but you might look back on it later as a bad choice.
Peace
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MisterE
Social climber
My Inner Nut
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Whaddya gonna do?
With all that?
:-) Erik
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valygrl
climber
Boulder, CO
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P.S. I thought this thread was going to be about climbing booty.... :(
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MisterE
Social climber
My Inner Nut
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Back It On Up
Like A Pick-up Truck!!
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Paul Martzen
Trad climber
Fresno
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Standing Strong,
You can't ever know whether you actually like or get along with somebody else before you interact with them. You can't know somebody else well, without interacting with them over a wide range of activities and situations.
You snubbed the boy at the mall because, "you can't pick me up at the f*cking mall. whatever." But that is where you were and where he was. He did not meet you someplace else. He made an honest attempt to interact with you and get to know you where he met you. You can try to make yourself feel safe or superior by denigrating him, but that only leads to your own isolation. If you prefered to interact with him someplace else, you could have invited him to that other situation. Obviously that takes a risk on your part.
Its natural or common to fantasize about who likes us and who we like, but it is really a waste of time and just gets in your way. You have to interact with people at random really, whether you think you like them or not. Because you really don't know anything about them until you do interact with them. Once you do give them a chance you will find that there are things to like about most everybody.
You said you had a crush on a fellow but were upset when you heard he made jokes about your body. You should not hold that against him, any more than you should take great pleasure in the positive comments about your "booty". If the only thing someone knows about you is your appearance, that is all that they can comment on. You will probably do far worse things yourself and you probably have already. If you are human, you are just as mean as the rest of us. It is just easy not to notice the damage that we ourselves create. Forgiveness is an extremely valuable skill.
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