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Happiegrrrl2
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Feb 14, 2016 - 09:26am PT
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What do YOU believe "we" owe at this point?
I personally believe that we owe a smile to people we pass on the streets, and if their skin color is noticed to be varied from our own, that's like a hand held out to acknowledge a fellow human being.
I personally believe we owe it to ourselves to become educated on what effects years of poverty and oppression can have on a person - EVEN when the poverty and oppression has ceased.
You gave a story of a woman who was abusive to her child as an example of "them," without even thinking of writing that you know "not all" behave that way or that you have seen "white people do the same." If you don't know that, or you haven't seen that, then you need to get out more, sir. You saw an example of bad parenting, and the actors just happened to be of African descent.
If you think that some goofball, of any race, that can't speak proper English and wears his pants down around his upper-thighs, while blasting hip-hop into his ears while you're trying to explain the job to him is "good help," .....
Perhaps you lack in the capacity to judge character in your hiring, or perhaps you are not offering an incentive that attracts people with a more refined set of social and business skills.
When I hired people for my dog-walking service, there were guidelines which were clearly provided, and I had a system in place to ensure that they were. "No cel phone conversations" and "no earphones" while with a client(animal or human) was specifically outlined.
If your job requires "proper english," or dress guidelines, or the non-use of things like earphones, as an employer it is your prerogative to explain this and deal with any infractions. Believe it or not, there ARE jobs where none of those things you mentioned would be detrimental to a job.
You are racist; I feel sorry for you. It is a sad way to go about the daily chores of living.
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dirtbag
climber
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Feb 14, 2016 - 09:45am PT
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Welcome back locker!
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Norton
Social climber
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Feb 14, 2016 - 09:53am PT
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Does anyone here on ST still believe he would be a good President???...
sure, my guess is quite a few of our forum "conservatives" will vote for him when
he is the official Republican Nominee for President
but to name just one, Pyro, has said a few times that he supports The Donald
because its all about being Against the Democratic Pary more so than being For
the Republican Party
God, Guns, and Gays
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SC seagoat
Trad climber
Santa Cruz, Moab, A sailboat, or some time zone
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Feb 14, 2016 - 10:01am PT
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The debate made ST look like a sandbox.
I loved Carson's "the evil government".
On a serious note....it's all very scary.
Susan
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madbolter1
Big Wall climber
Denver, CO
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Feb 14, 2016 - 05:19pm PT
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are you seriously arguing that the u.s.a., as a structural entity, has done enough in the last 62 years to repair the mistakes made during its 178 yrs of structural racism and the in total 428 yrs of european descended but north american based structural racism that it was founded on and continued?
I'm asking a QUESTION, which has not yet been answered straightforwardly, which is: When is enough enough? How MUCH does your "camp" feel that people of our generation OWE now?
or, as it appears in some instances, are you arguing that no reparations should have been made, and that the repealing of federal laws in 1954 was all that was required?
I'm not "arguing" that. Again, I'm trying to get clear about what folks like you feel like it takes to finally expect a generation to stand on their own two feet without excuses.
or are you just trying to argue that you personally, as a white individual who had nothing to do directly with that past, should not be implicated in the guilt associated with those decisions made long before your time?
Now you're getting there! I refuse to be shamed for deeds done in the past that I would not have done and that have are no reflection upon my perspectives.
i get the latter, but as it appears you're arguing one or both of the former, i am left quite astounded.
No. People here are so HYPER-sensitive to ANYBODY even suggesting that black people TODAY bear SOME measure of responsibility for their CURRENT position that the frothing at the mouth and spitting, sputtering rebukes of, "You're a racist" just come FLYING out without the SLIGHTEST effort to understand a nuanced perspective.
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crankster
Trad climber
No. Tahoe
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Feb 14, 2016 - 05:22pm PT
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Nuanced? Nope. More like the antonym, course or rough.
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ms55401
Trad climber
minneapolis, mn
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Feb 14, 2016 - 05:27pm PT
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trump is a joke, even The Donald is surprised that rubes take his shtick seriously
whether you like it or not (for the record, I don't like it) -- President Clinton will be inaugurated in January 2017
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madbolter1
Big Wall climber
Denver, CO
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Feb 14, 2016 - 05:50pm PT
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I personally believe that we owe a smile to people we pass on the streets, and if their skin color is noticed to be varied from our own, that's like a hand held out to acknowledge a fellow human being.
No doubt, but that's a pretty low bar to get over.
I personally believe we owe it to ourselves to become educated on what effects years of poverty and oppression can have on a person - EVEN when the poverty and oppression has ceased.
Clearly, you don't know me, and you're projecting a LOT of BS onto my perspectives that is not legitimate. You accuse me of being too quick to judge, but you have judged me IN TOTO on the basis of astoundingly incomplete evidence, and you've misread the "evidence" you think you have.
I read "Black Like Me" when I was an early teen, and it was a revelation that stuck with me and informed my perspectives about the plight of the black community ever since.
Since that time, I have had endless interactions with black people, from the projects where I grew up to the university classes I have taught. I have seen that, like all races of people, black people come in the good, the bad, and the ugly.
Some of the finest people I have ever known in my life have been black, and I don't think of them AS black. I think of them AS people. Such as....
The outgoing president of my denomination, a man I had the honor to serve directly under as executive director of that denomination, a refined, dedicated, well-read gentleman of the highest caliber, a man I prayed with, wept with in denominational hardship, and celebrated his triumphs and retirement.
The present president of our ministerial council and denominational board chairman, who, like the above, is one of the finest human beings I have ever met and who has garnered world-wide respect and admiration among the people of our denomination.
And don't pop off with the SUPPOSEDLY decimating line, "Oh, yeah, right. Some of your best friends are black." That's a TOTALLY specious retort, because it throws the opponent into a catch-22, which is by design: He can't talk about the MANY black people he LOVES, yet if he doesn't, then it's obvious that he doesn't know/love any black people.
That's the problem with ALL "racial" talk: It's impossible for it to not be loaded with presumptions of racism, even when there is none.
In point of FACT, I have had profoundly close and intimate relationships with a WIDE range of black people my entire life, and I have been horrified and worked to resolve stories I've heard (in my role as executive director) of racism in my denomination. And if you talked to black people close to me, with whom I have talked in depth about the very things we're talking about here, THEY understand my perspectives very well and SHARE them!
THEY would be the first to tell you that I am no racist and that they themselves decry the endless victim-mentality and excuses perpetrated by too much of the black community. THEY cite Colin Powell's urging the black community to take advantage of the opportunities provided and quit appealing to distant abuse TODAY.
You gave a story of a woman who was abusive to her child as an example of "them," without even thinking of writing that you know "not all" behave that way or that you have seen "white people do the same." If you don't know that, or you haven't seen that, then you need to get out more, sir. You saw an example of bad parenting, and the actors just happened to be of African descent.
Nope. Sorry! You do NOT get to sum up the story that way. That's lame!
NOBODY in the white community that I have EVER seen, even growing up in the ghetto, was calling their son "white trash" or "cracker" or any other RACIAL epithet! THAT is the issue here: This black woman was USING racial epithets against her own son, and blacks do that a LOT.
Perhaps YOU haven't gotten out much (into the real inner cities where I grew up). Perhaps YOU don't listen to much gansta-rap and hip-hop, where MUCH of it uses "nigger" as an epithet. Very few white people still call blacks "niggers," but they continually call themselves that. And until THEY get past this fundamentally racist world-view, they PROJECT a racism (and have many hand-wringing white libtards to help them) onto the vast majority of the white population that is NOT racist and WISHES we could all just get past it!
It is OUTRAGEOUS for the black woman to rebuke her son AS she did, forget about "bad parenting."
Perhaps you lack in the capacity to judge character in your hiring, or perhaps you are not offering an incentive that attracts people with a more refined set of social and business skills.
That statement is just so ridiculous on so many levels that I'm astounded at how flip you think it's acceptable to be. My company is composed of tremendous people, and we serve some of the finest universities on this planet. We certainly DO have the capacity to judge what it takes to have people at the level of education, refinement, and communications skills to serve our customers. And the sort of person I described is NOT it!
When I hired people for my dog-walking service, there were guidelines which were clearly provided
Really? Are you kidding?
You had "standard" for your dog-walking service, and you bag on me for having standards in my business that provides mission-critical, enterprise-grade systems that serve entire universities, systems that serve millions of students, faculty, staff, and administrators across the USA and Canada?
Sorry, that's an apples and moon-rocks comparison!
Yeah, we have standards, and they do NOT include the sort of low-lifes I described that moan about how "racist" everybody is, so that they can't get a "decent" job. But they can't even pull their pants up! LOL
Believe it or not, there ARE jobs where none of those things you mentioned would be detrimental to a job.
The entire tone of your message is SO demeaning and judgmental, like you know me. But you are CLUELESS.
You are racist; I feel sorry for you.
The sorrow is shared! I'm ASTOUNDED at how tritely people like you issue one of the most horrible judgments possible today! Because I don't share YOUR particular perspectives does NOT make me a racist, and it is flat-out CRAZY that you feel free to call somebody you OBVIOUSLY don't know such a horrible thing.
It is a sad way to go about the daily chores of living.
I have NO idea what this statement means. I find your entire message to be pathetically ignorant, judgmental, and outrageous.
All I can say to YOU is what I said up-thread, the pendulum is swinging, baby... and MANY blacks (such as the ones I mentioned above and many more like them) are disgusted by what they see in the black community at large. We're all about tired of the moaning and excuses and are really tired of paying and paying for BEHAVIORS that are SELF-destructive!
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madbolter1
Big Wall climber
Denver, CO
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Feb 14, 2016 - 05:54pm PT
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Would you have not done those nasty things if you were from the generation that did ?
Who knows, Jim? I, of course, like to think that the "me" that would have existed then would have been the "me" of today, namely that I could see right from wrong. Certainly there were MANY even back in the day that saw the injustice and insanity of considering another human being as "inferior" and worthy of enslavement due to skin-color. I hope that the "me" in question would have a character that would transcend cultural mores. The "me" I see in the mirror has been willing to take the road less traveled by and buck popular perspectives.
So I hope! But, your point is well-taken, and it's impossible to know.
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Ghost
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A long way from where I started
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Feb 14, 2016 - 06:49pm PT
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Would you have not done those nasty things if you were from the generation that did ?
That is a more important question that it appears at first glance. For most of us, including you, Richard, and you, Jim, the answer is probably "yes,"
And, if so, it means we ought to question the "Well, I personally haven't put down any blacks, so it's up to them to get their 21st Century sh#t together."
Which is not to say Richard's sentiments are stupid or wrong. Rather that the problem won't be solved simply by saying that blacks (or chinks, or polacks or whites, or Syrian migrants, or whatever immigrant minority) should just harden the f*#k up and get on with it.
You can't simply wave your hands and make four centuries of institutionalized racism suddenly disappear. Nor can you solve all the problems by saying "This is all our fault."
Gotta be some work by everybody.
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madbolter1
Big Wall climber
Denver, CO
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Feb 14, 2016 - 07:46pm PT
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Gotta be some work by everybody.
I totally agree!
But I'm tired of superficial "answers" and the continual playing of the race card to alienate the very people that would be engaged with GENUINE solutions once they could be figured out. And I am sick to DEATH of being called a racist when I most certainly am not.
And this is why I keep asking: What's the plan? More of the same?
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Ghost
climber
A long way from where I started
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Feb 14, 2016 - 08:02pm PT
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And this is why I keep asking: What's the plan? More of the same?
I haven't got an easy answer. I doubt there is any simple plan that will solve all the problems. As I said above, I think this is going to take a lot of work by everybody -- whether black/white in the US native/euro in Canada, Muslim immigrant/euro native in Europe, or any of the endless other racial/cultural/religious messes in the world.
But let me toss your question back at you, Richard: What is your plan?
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zBrown
Ice climber
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Feb 14, 2016 - 08:15pm PT
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I'm asking a QUESTION, which has not yet been answered straightforwardly, which is: When is enough enough? How MUCH does your "camp" feel that people of our generation OWE now?
How this got in the Donald arena I'm not sure (is he racist?), but could we get a straightforward assessment of how much of the debt, which you seem to be acknowledging, has been paid down so far? By whom?
I predict Hillary will win it.
-Nostril_da_moose
Then will Obama withdraw his nominee and who will Hillary pick?
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madbolter1
Big Wall climber
Denver, CO
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Feb 14, 2016 - 09:41pm PT
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I appreciate your attitude about this, Ghost. I'll start by saying that.
Regarding my plan, I would start by asking further questions, because I believe that until we are on the same page about what counts as "success," we're going to be fighting among ourselves about "direction."
So, let's start with what counts as "success". Regarding "success," I believe that a "color-blind" society is impossible in principle; it's basic psychology that people are "tribal" and form up into "us/them" groups. Part of defining another group as "them" is appearance. You can educate and educate, but that basic psychology is very resilient. The "us/them" mentality defines everything from family units to football fans. It can become "more color-blind," but there will ALWAYS be pockets of people that just can't get past it regarding color. So, our best hope is to relegate such people to the tiny minority, where they were once the mainstream.
Given that the idea of absolute "color blindness" is impossible, what we CAN do is systematically take the stigma out of color. I think that we actually HAVE been systematically doing an increasingly effective job of that just during my lifetime. We're not "there" yet, but there are HUGE swaths of society (the majority) that no longer associate black with inferior or even bad. I'm all for "more of the same" regarding the educational and media-based process that can hopefully come close to eliminating the ever-shrinking pockets of genuine racism that still exist.
The flip side of the above coin is that we need to stop the reverse-racism that treats "whitie" as the enemy, when already the vast majority of "whitie" is NOT the enemy.
On that point, if there's a bad cop who IS a racist, s/he should be terminated and even indicted, depending upon what s/he did. Conversely, it is entirely unacceptable for society to be so running scared of even the whispered, much more yelled, accusation of racism that a white cop is effectively disarmed in the face of a black thug. For example, MOST of the cases cited by BLM are ridiculous. You do NOT get to be a thug and assault a cop and expect (nay, demand) to live through it. And you're NO hero if you get shot for doing something that NO sensible, non-thug in civilized SOCIETY would think of doing. Quit being a thug, and you'll suddenly find yourself in little danger of getting shot by ANY cop.
There is simply NO comparison between the black gentlemen I referred to up-thread and these thugs that are getting themselves shot. And the gentlemen I referred to are not getting themselves into situations where they have to worry about "police racism." Let the black community start emulating the MANY examples of genuinely great people of color instead of demeaning them with racial epithets like "Oreo Cookie" and other such crap!
Now, let me hasten to say that "the black community" has really become bifurcated, and that is a HUGE source of problems today. THAT is why I referred to "culturism" rather than "racism." And my up-thread effort was met with such ridiculous lines as, "So, if they act white, then it's all good." Look, it's not a matter of acting "white". It's a matter of acting civilized! If what THAT means has to be explained to you, then you are part of the problem or your are being intentionally daft, in which case, well, you are part of the problem.
Regarding the bifurcation, a HUGE part of "the black community" has become totally mainstream in every sense. They have realized that education and careerism leads to success, respect, integration, and a lack of racism within their sphere. The media could do MUCH more to report on these many, many success stories instead of glorifying thuggism and "oppression" that really is not.
Part of the educational process is going to have to include a very systematic recognition that it is UNACCEPTABLE today to so quickly plop down the race card and accuse others of racism. It's a HORRIBLE and truly painful accusation, and being quick on the draw with that accusation undermines the unifying efforts of decades! At this point, society has gone too far, imo, toward "seeing" racism everywhere.
There is a vast difference between "behavioralism," which is legitimate, and racism, which is not. THAT needs to be more clearly and sweepingly articulated. That articulation would not only applaud those who HAVE succeeded (and the means by which they did so), but it would point a very legitimate finger at the behavior CHOICES that do not tend toward success or are actually ANTI-society.
So, in the end, the basis of any productive societal change is going to be fundamentally cultural education. Our focus has been SO thoroughly on identifying and condemning racism that now we "see" it everywhere, particularly where it is not. It's time for educational institutions, media, and even individuals to ratchet that back and PRESUME that a person is NOT racist, even if the person expresses disagreement with or disapproval of this or that behavior.
Finally, people of all races should be systematically confronted with some basic facts. Being an acceptable, normalized part of society means that you have a fundamentally LEGAL perspective. You don't get to act illegally and use the race card to extort a pass for it! You act like a thug, and you ARE going to get put down for it, without sympathy, and without some racial excuse. There HAS to be a basis in individual responsibility that has NOTHING to do with race. And it has to be made systematically clear that the FOUNDATION of society is to be law-abiding.
These are broad-strokes ideas rather than a "plan". But I don't totally punt either. As I said at the start, part of the problem is that we have never clearly articulated what "the problem" is or what "success" would look like. Also, I don't have ANY power, which would come with better data and access to the channels by which things (including media manipulations) can be made to happen. Ultimately, cultural change can only come by education. I'm advocating as systematic and sweeping of a pendulum swing back to a more balanced perspective now as there once was to elevate the issue of what was once a pervasive problem with racism.
I am NOT saying that racism is non-existent! I'm not saying, "Problem solved, so let's just put it all behind us." I'm saying, "Problem has been pushed largely into the shadows, and it is NOT mainstream anymore. So, let's elevate what's RIGHT about the mainstream now, and in the SHADOWS go after the remaining problems that are in the shadows." Now I believe it's time to focus on success-stories rather than witch-hunts. COULD the media genuinely focus, systematically and continually, on positive stories (such as the vast respect the president I referred to has achieved)? There are MILLIONS of such stories to tell! Let's elevate what's right in the black community and not be afraid to condemn what's wrong. Certain behaviors are entirely unacceptable and must be roundly condemned. And it's not "racism" to condemn such behaviors in no uncertain terms.
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Ken M
Mountain climber
Los Angeles, Ca
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Feb 14, 2016 - 09:55pm PT
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And I am sick to DEATH of being called a racist when I most certainly am not.
If, as you say, you keep being called a racist, you might consider that what you are doing is adopting the rhetoric and mannerisms of racists.
After all, if I see a guy walking down the street towards me wearing a sheet, it is natural to make assumptions.
I will note that I cannot recall being called a racist in the last 30 years, even by my black friends. I would bet that many white guys here have the same experience.
WHY is your experience different?
It is good that you are asking questions (although on the wrong thread)
"If my Answers frighten you Vincent then you should cease asking scary questions"
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madbolter1
Big Wall climber
Denver, CO
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Feb 14, 2016 - 10:56pm PT
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If, as you say, you keep being called a racist, you might consider that what you are doing is adopting the rhetoric and mannerisms of racists.
No, you are conflating. I'll give you an example.
In a college course I had to take, called "Perspectives on Gender," about 150 of us were in a large lecture hall. At one point, the teachers called the whole group up onto the stage in one big, milling herd. At that point, the teachers got down to their intended business....
"Females, please move to the left side of the stage. Males to the right side, please."
We moved as told.
"Those on the right are the oppressors. Those on the left are the oppressed. Now, please come back to the center of the stage."
We did, only to find that this was just round one of many rounds to come....
"People of color, please move to the left side of the stage. Caucasians, please move to the right side of the stage."
We split up as told.
"Those of your on the right are the oppressors. Those of you on the left are the oppressed. Okay, now come back together in the center."
We did as told.
"Homosexuals, please move to the left of the stage. Hetrosexuals, please move to the right."
On and on this crap continued, and "I" was always the "oppressor."
Finally, it was so ridiculous that even the "oppressed" were telling the teachers to stop it. But there's a pervasive mindset today that "Whitie" is prima facie evil.
I'm sick of it.
I will note that I cannot recall being called a racist in the last 30 years, even by my black friends. I would bet that many white guys here have the same experience.
It would be mighty ODD if your black "friends" were telling you that you are a racist! So, I'm not impressed that they are not.
And it doesn't surprise me that a guy who spends his life pandering to REVERSE racism would not be called a racist, even if he actually is.
I would also bet that MANY black guys have gone 30 years without being called a "nigger" by any white guy. So, I guess that there's no anti-black racism.
Look, whatever your circles have been does not address the circles others have experienced. Furthermore, you don't even realize how ridiculous your statement is in its IRONY! You are employing the EXACT same reasoning that blames the victim of racism: "Hey, darky, what are you DOING to bring this racism down on yourself. I've got lots of black friends that have never been called 'nigger,' so if it's happening to you, perhaps you are acting like a 'nigger'. Did you ever think of that?"
WHY is your experience different?
I don't know, and neither do you. What I do know is that I have probably been in different situations and circumstances than you. Did you grow up in inner-city projects, in a one-parent, drug and gang-infested family? Did you attend an inner-city high school with daily racial violence? Did you see daily gangland fights and frequent maimings and homicides? Did you witness your first gangland murder by age 15? Have you ever seen a gang of blacks beat a white guy to death with baseball bats? Have you ever seen a gang of whites then retaliate in kind? Have you ever been shot at by gang-bangers? Have you gone to college in a racially-tensioned school? Have you taught at racially-tensioned high-schools or universities?
I could honestly go on and on. If you think that hanging around and drinking some beers with fellow middle-class, liberal buddies is an experience ANYTHING like mine, then that would explain why you have no clue why your question is so loaded.
It is good that you are asking questions (although on the wrong thread)
It's not the wrong thread. People on THIS thread have repeatedly accused Trump of being a racist, misogynist, fascist, etc. From my own experience, I would say that he probably is not, and I find the ease with which people throw such hideous accusations around disgusting.
"If my Answers frighten you Vincent then you should cease asking scary questions"
Ridiculous.
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madbolter1
Big Wall climber
Denver, CO
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Feb 14, 2016 - 11:05pm PT
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That was mighty white of you to say so, Richard.
Ackk... this and the rest of your post is why I have to again conclude that it's just an absolute waste of time to try to argue on the Taco Stand. It ALWAYS devolves into sick, distorted, personal attacks. And it is literally not worth trying to "defend" against the layers of stupidity that ground these attacks.
"2 year contract to a Christian college in a corn field, trying to be a university ?"
Are you SERIOUS? Is this REALLY the level you stoop to?
I really do have much better uses of my time.
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crankster
Trad climber
No. Tahoe
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Feb 15, 2016 - 06:49am PT
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madbolter, Donald Trump may not actually be a racist, as you believe, but he sure does attract a lot of them and he sure is happy to have their support. He skips the dog whistles and goes right to the bullhorn.
Like, Ken, I've avoided being called a racist in my life, mostly because as an older white guy I don't try to lecture black people on how they should be dealing with obvious racial inequality. I do believe, however, that most want "a hand up, not a handout", as the saying goes.
And if you're posting your theories on the Donald thread because you think he would do a better job advancing race relations over the Dem candidate, well, expect a vigorous debate on that one.
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HighDesertDJ
Trad climber
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Feb 15, 2016 - 07:27am PT
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If advocating for policies that discriminate against certain types of people based on their race isn't racism then the word no longer has any meaning.
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